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It’s over for this round

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So this round is over, BFN again. Every time this happens it feels like another loss. Stopped the meds this afternoon and already feels like AF will be making an appearance.

It feels hard, knowing we have to start all over again. Can’t help get angry at the world sometimes and think will it ever be my turn. Did I do something to deserve this?

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Nat246

Sorry to hear you had a negative test. So many women on this forum understand how crushing that is and understand your anger. Don’t give up. It’s so bloody hard but you’ve got to give it your all and hope that next time it works. Perhaps next time you can change your protocol to see if that helps. Sending hugs xx

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Sexy376

Hun I get you! It never gets easier and I often think what have I done so bad in my life to deserve this but you have to stay positive it’s bloody hard but trust me it brings you back fighting stronger

I’m on my 6th attempt now and my final and already I’m feeling negative about it trust me you have every right to be angry it’s natural to feel this way

Take some time for you and chill xxx

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BluMonkey

Thank you Nat, we have done changes based on the era but the FET medicated and non medicated didn’t work.

The only time it worked was on a the first fresh attempt and that resulted in a MMC.

Just feel so lost. X

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Sexy376

Hun I get you! It never gets easier and I often think what have I done so bad in my life to deserve this but you have to stay positive it’s bloody hard but trust me it brings you back fighting stronger

I’m on my 6th attempt now and my final and already I’m feeling negative about it trust me you have every right to be angry it’s natural to feel this way

Take some time for you and chill xxx

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BluMonkey in reply to Sexy376

Thank you, I hope this round works for you. I will be thinking of you! Xx

I always think it’s my fault and as women I feel like we get all the questions about when will we have babies. Sometimes I feel everyone looks at me and naturally assumes it’s all my fault.

I know my round wasn’t successful but have faith that you will get through it. Like you said we come back fighting stronger x

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Sexy376 in reply to BluMonkey

We all blame ourselves hun it’s only natural to do that but there is nothing we can do if it’s meant to be it will be

Stay strong and come back fighting xx

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BluMonkey in reply to Sexy376

Thank you for your kind words x

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TheFoxes

Really sorry to hear it my love. It really is devastating. Standing in solidarity. Go careful. X

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BluMonkey in reply to TheFoxes

Thank you xxx

There’s been a few BFN on here recently including myself ☹️. It’s so unfair when it comes to others so easy. The struggle is real😭. Hope you’re ok xx

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BluMonkey in reply to

Hope you’re okay? I’m so sorry ☹️

We will pick ourselves up, I was talking to my other half and he said maybe we go through these struggles so that when it does happen we hold onto it even more tighter x

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kc21

So sorry :( xxxxx

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BluMonkey in reply to kc21

Xxx

Im so sorry lovely. And you didnt do anything to deserve this (i know most of us ask this questions). There are rapist, child molesters etc etc that have kids so no it is not because we are bad. I havent found the answer my self but one thing i know is that every single woman here is going to be the best parent because look what we go through. You will be the best mommy one day❤️

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BluMonkey in reply to

Thank you mimisami, I hope the same for all of us on here xxx

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Beatrix_K

Hey Blu I’m so, so sorry. I hate that we have to go through this horrible process and that so many women on here are punished time and again. It’s just sh*t. Xx

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BluMonkey in reply to Beatrix_K

Beatrix it is sh*t. Just hoping one day we all get our little miracle x

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