3 days post 5 day FET and I no longer feel anything- losing my mind searching for symptoms that just aren’t there! ☹️

[Msze]

Hello- I had a donor FET and am 3 days post transfer now. The first 2 days I thought I felt cramping and some sharp pains and now nothing at all - not anything all day! I’m panicking and can’t take any more heartache. I’m going on 4 years of trying. This is my 4th transfer. I just please need someone to tell me if this is normal? Could I be pregnant and feel nothing? I’m just so desperate at this point. Thank you.

[treezuk]

This is so normal I never had any real symptoms after the initial first few days cramps after the FET (DE) and I was pregnant so don’t give up hope so people do feel nothing.

[Msze in reply to treezuk]

Thank you. I pray that’s the case. I was pregnant once And miscarried And during that wait could feel lots of fluttering and stretching so am worried feeling nothing. I hope you are right.

[treezuk in reply to Msze]

Every pregnancy is different honestly try not to panic x

[danae35]

Hi, I’m in the same time 3 day post DE.... I just have today few cramps but not massive, but because I have an horrible lower back pain I can concentrate on other signs... I can say that we have to keep our faith and don’t give up... on my first transfer ( back in June ) I had let’s say more, but was negative ☹️.... so I think everyone is different and every pregnancy is different... just hold on and don’t stress, I know is not good to do so.... keep my fingers crossed for you xxx lots of hugs

[Msze in reply to danae35]

Hi! Was your transfer on Monday or Tuesday? Mine was on Monday. Lower back pain is so good. I wish I had that! I had that with my first pregnancy. Best of luck to you also. When is your beta? Mine is next Monday at 7 days post transfer.

[danae35 in reply to Msze]

I had on Tuesday... my beta is on 6th at 14 days after transfer... but I’m gonna do a test home day 12-13 if I can wait by then xxxx

[Msze in reply to danae35]

Interesting. I’m in the US And my doctor tests after one week. Also day of transfer for me was considered “day zero”. It’s interesting how it’s done differently depending on where you are.

[danae35 in reply to Msze]

I’m in the UK, done the transfer in Spain

[Msze in reply to danae35]

Well best of luck to US! I hope we both have happy endings!

[danae35 in reply to Msze]

Xxxxx baby dust

[Weareback2]

I never had any symptoms at all until 14 weeks. Currently 32 weeks pregnant now! Please don't google and try and relax! If it happened naturally you probably wouldn't know at this stage! Good luck.

[Msze in reply to Weareback2]

Thank you and congratulations to you ❤️

[BettyBe]

Try not to worry Msze, 2ww is the absolute worst!! I had my transfer Monday and can’t feel anything either and your post was exactly what I was thinking, so completely understand.. Was in tears all yesterday as I felt empty / nothing... then I felt really angry. I had to hold myself from shouting at my husband (forgetting that he’s going through this too). The drugs / process causes havoc with emotions. Try to be calm - lots of women have no symptoms and have a BFP and a lot of symptoms are caused by progesterone! PUPO as they say! Best of luck 🌺🌈🎊💖✨xx

[Msze in reply to BettyBe]

Thank you. Me too. I’m in tears right now. Hope you get a BFP ❤️🌈 My husband gets so upset with me that I get so worked up but it’s impossible for me not to.

[BettyBe in reply to Msze]

Try not to get upset!! I know it’s easier said than done but it’s really out of our hands now. Try and keep busy, listen to music or perhaps watch a nice film? I remember in my first cycle the sonographer said to me that the egg wants to implant, it wants to survive. The body will give its best shot and if it’s not to be then it wasn’t meant to be. She was very pragmatic. I don’t know if that’s helpful or not!!

It’s just the awful waiting game for something you want more than anything. We can do this!! We’ve come so far that hopefully it is a positive for us both 💖🌈🎊🌺 xx