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OTD today and it was a BFN 😢 that’s us out for round 2. I have period cramps but light bleeding, I just know AF is going to rear her ugly head any day. Going to take time to heal and start round 3 in January. Thank you to all the ladies who took the time to offer their support by replying to my posts. I wish you all the luck in the world for your current and future treatments, we will get there one days ladies and we will be the best mums. Love to all, I’m out for a couple of months xxxx

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AuroraXen

I'm so sorry Char. It's just the worst 💔 It's a pain and disappointment most people are fortunate enough never to know. Take the time you need to recover and build yourself up again - and if you need any boosting, this community is here for you 💞 x

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Char2189 in reply toAuroraXen

People like you make me feel better. Thanks Aurora, all the best xxx

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Dorekhani

I m really sorry for your pain I fully understand it because I passed through this twice trying for a baby for passed 8 years... So I know how we feel without a child... I m happy that you are strong and positive.. Inshallah 2021 will bring happiness of child to you.. Best of luck for your next cycle🙏🙏😘😘

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Char2189 in reply toDorekhani

Thank you 😊 wishing you all the best xx

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Cinderella5

Im so sorry Char! This is so demanding physically and mentally. I hope you can perhaps have some down time with some lovely treats for now and come back when you get back on your feet. Hugs.xx

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Char2189 in reply toCinderella5

Thank you Cinderella, look after yourself xxx

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Lots8788

So sorry to hear that. Lots of hugs to you and wishing you all the best for your next cycle. Take it easy and be kind to yourself xx

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Char2189 in reply toLots8788

Thank you for your kind words babydust and love to you xx

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ttcemmie

So sorry to hear this, Char. This fertility battle can be relentless and you are a warrior. Take time to heal and we are all here thinking of you and here to support you. Lots of love. xxxx

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Char2189 in reply tottcemmie

Thank you ttcemmie take care of yourself 😘 xx

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Bozo_the_pumpkin

So sorry to hear of your negative test... its so disappointing... rest and gather yourself so that you can be ready for round 3

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Char2189 in reply toBozo_the_pumpkin

Thank you Bozo 😘 xxx

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Shazb123

Hey Char, firstly- wanted to say I’m so sorry about your BFN. Be kind to yourself and remember you’re not alone. I just completed my IVF cycle and found out on Monday my embroyo didn’t stick. We will get through this- be strong. If you need to chat I’m here x

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Char2189 in reply toShazb123

Hello Shazzy thank you for the reply. I am so sorry you had bad news too 😢 not fair that we put ourselves through so much and it doesn’t work. You too take time to heal and do something fun. Are you going to try again? Same to you I’m here if you want to chat xxx

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Shazb123 in reply toChar2189

I am thinking of trying clomid if they offer it to me as I didn’t have a go on that. If that doesn’t work, I will try again. I may change clinics just because I’ve found one with a bit higher success rate and offers add ons.

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Vhee

Hello Char,

I’m really sorry you have to go through this loss. Try to relax and get right back in. We will all receive our miracles by Gods grace.

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JenRoy

Sorry to hear this 😢. We had a BFN last week. So gutted but feeling a little stronger this week. It’s just so shit! Xx

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