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**Sensitive** hanging on in there

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Just a wee update for anyone with a subchorionic Hematoma. I Had a follow up scan today At 6wk +5 to check on the bleeding And whilst the hematoma is still there and still as big (and scary 😭) I saw a heartbeat 💓.

Baby is measuring 6+4 so doctor doesn’t think it has affected baby’s growth and she was slightly more positive than last week although still VERY cautious about the outcome especially as I had a huge Red bleed on Monday and passed a massive clot (it was like a crime scene!)

I really don’t know what I’m looking at on the monitor at the scans except a little blob 🙈 but she made sure I could see the heartbeat and told me my cervix is still closed so it’s calmed me down quite a bit.

Dr said to come back for my original scheduled app (that should have been my first scan if it hadn’t been for the bleeding) on sept 15th and said my wife could come to that one too 🙌🏼

So now we are just keeping our fingers crossed 🤞🏽 until sept 15th. Thanks again for keeping me positive so far despite the scary bleeding I honestly can’t believe how many IVF ladies end up with this when I‘ve never heard of it before in my life!!

🤗 You are all utterly amazing!!! Xx

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KiboXX

So pleased to see this Twiglet and how lovely your wife can go with you next time ❤️ keeping everything crossed for the rest of your pregnancy xxxx

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Twiglet2 in reply to KiboXX

Thank you 🤗 xx

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Luna_79

Thrilled to see this post, you have a strong little bean in there, so lovely you can both go to the next scan together 💕💕💕 xx

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Twiglet2 in reply to Luna_79

Thank you lovely and thanks for all your support xx

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Luna_79 in reply to Twiglet2

Just delighted little bean is hanging on in there, he / she is where they are meant to be xxx

Aww such a relief! Take care if yourselves xx

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Thank you 🤗

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FrancyItaly

So glad to hear that, such a relief! 💕

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Twiglet2 in reply to FrancyItaly

Thanks it really is! Xx

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MumofaSpaniel

This is such good news Twiglet. I am so so happy for you both.

I had a bleed last week and they managed to scan me, it was amazing to see that heartbeat and the wave of Joy/relief I had was great. I’m in on the 18th for my scan just with the travelling I asked for it to be in my 9th week which I was dreading but now that I have seen my little one I don’t mind waiting until then. Is you wife allowed in because of your situation or have they relaxed the rules for that last step?? My husband would love to be able to attend. It was so hard to describe to him what the scan showed , all be it not much.

Ah I am so happy for you xxx

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Twiglet2 in reply to MumofaSpaniel

Thank you 😊 yeah I can’t explain the scan at all but they gave me a photo this time that helped (very slightly!) no it’s not because of my situation they said that they rules have been relaxed a little to allow partners to the first scan... even though this will be the 3rd scan it’s the scheduled ‘first’ so partners allowed. Hoping it doesn’t change between then and now... especially with Glasgow being put back into partial lockdown! The doctor checked with the nurse and partners were defo allowed at that appointment (but that one only) xx

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MumofaSpaniel in reply to Twiglet2

Aww I can’t wait to tell him!! Thank you!

I look forward to hearing how it goes for you xxxx

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Daisy-Delilah

So pleased to hear this!!! 💕 xxx

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Twiglet2 in reply to Daisy-Delilah

Thank you 😊 xxx

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Hope76

Fabulous news, focus on the growth & heartbeat, sounding very positive 🙏🏻

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Cmc2020

Congrats so happy to hear this 🥳 xx

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Vicster80

What great news Twiglet2. This little one is tough and I’m sure it’ll keep clinging on. So pleased for you x

Thrilled for you that’s such super news! Keep taking it easy and think positive xx

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Lynnr54

Very happy to see this. It’s strange how this doesn’t seem to be that uncommon in IVF pregnancies. Hopefully as baby grows it will overtake the haematoma and it will absorb into the placenta. There are lots of stories of ladies bleeding throughout the first trimester. I’ve got everything crossed for you. Keep us updated.

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Twiglet2 in reply to Lynnr54

Aww thank you so much 😊 it really is a mystery why so many IVF ladies get it vs natural conception 🤷🏻‍♀️ Like we do t have enough going on 🙈😆 xx

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CLDxxx

Great news Twiglet! And so pleased your wife can come to your next scan 🥰 xx

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JoP32

Wonderful news! So happy to read this! Xx

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Sazzysah

Hi so pleased that everything is fine and baby is growing well.

I know exactly how worrying they can be I suffered 5 during my pregnancy some were quite heavy too.

Thankfully all was ok.

My little girl is one and doing great.

I wish you all the best in your journey x😊

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Twiglet2 in reply to Sazzysah

Aww thank you 🤗 that just have been very scary but glad to hear it all turned out lovely for you xx

What a relief for you. Glad it went okay. Rest up as much as you can xxx

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Stato

This is great news. Hang on in there! We’re all behind you x 💪🏻🤞🏻🙌🏻

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Twiglet2 in reply to Stato

Thank you 🤗💓

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feminist

Fabulous news Twiglet!!! So happy for you. It all sounds very positive and great you were able to see the heartbeat. Lovely you can bring your wife to the next one ❤️. I have mine tomorrow and have been an anxious wreck the past few days. Take good care of yourself. Fingers crossed for us both xxxx

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Twiglet2 in reply to feminist

Good luck for tomorrow let me know how you get on 🤗 xx

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feminist in reply to Twiglet2

Thank you! Will do xxxx

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Rainbowdreams82

Thinking of you & hoping all works out. Sounds more positive 💞great your wife is allowed in for scan. Mine is too in 2 weeks....if I survive the anxious wait. Sending positive vibes your way for the journey ahead xxx

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