Hi,
This is the first time I've posted on here, but have been following quite a few threads previously. I've just turned 44 and I'm in the middle of my 7th round of IVF (in the space of 17 months), doing it solo. I haven't responded well at all this cycle and it looks like I'll be going into egg collection for just one follicle - no point cancelling and seeing if next month is any different at this age now.
My last cycle last month was the first time I opted to use ICSI and AOA as I don't want to look back and have the 'what if' questions and need to feel like I've tried everything - the 5 cycles prior to that were all full IVF fresh transfer cycles, all negative pregnancy tests. Last cycle my plan was to freeze any good quality day 3 embryos so that I could take a few months out to get some breathing space and then be able to, hopefully, try a few frozen transfers (again so that I know I've tried everything before I have to walk away as the previous 5 fresh transfers didn't work). Last cycle was a disaster as we collected 2 eggs (I've typically been getting 4 for the cycles prior to that) and only 1 fertilised normally (the other fertilised abnormally) and come day 3 the quality had dropped to 'average/fair' rather than the 'good' quality I'd been getting in the previous cycles. So last cycle was the first time I had nothing to show for it as it wasn't good enough quality to freeze and I opted to not transfer.
My question is, if you had only 1 egg would you use ICSI/AOA again or opt for IVF instead? My 3rd cycle ended up with only 1 follicle responding and we got 1 egg, but that time I used IVF not ICSI and it fertilised. My concern about using ICSI with just 1 egg is that there are clearly more risks compared to IVF as piercing the egg can damage around 5-10% of good quality eggs, plus the other risks associated with it. However, if I use IVF it may not fertilise at all. This could be my last ever egg as not sure I can go through a further 8th round and if I do it would, again, be in the hope I can get a couple more in the freezer for later use.