Having a low day

[Annie1609]

So it’s one more day till otd. I have been trying to stay positive this week, but today it’s all got to me. I have no pregnancy symptoms and have been unable to focus on anything.

Due to my work iv had to shield and am due back this week after 7 weeks off. To top it all off another friend has announced her pregnancy. I know there is no real point to this post but I guess I just wanted to moan 😪

[Sunshine92]

Hey lovely.

You are not alone. Try to keep your brain busy, you’re almost there!!

I remember on my last transfer, 5DPT having the same feeling. I actually have videos on my phone of me sobbing and sobbing this day because i was CONVINCED it hadnt worked. My sore boobs from trigger had gone, I had no symptoms. In my heart of hearts i knew it was over.

Turns out it wasnt, and a few days later to my absolute shock i got a BFP. I’m now 28 weeks pregnant, and other than a bump ive had a completely symptomless pregnancy from day of transfer.

The stage you’re at is so hard, you feel so out of control, you’ve done all you can up to now, its down to fate. Dont rule yourself out yet, have a de-caff tea and a slice of cake, visit a family member or close friend, go out to eat somewhere to take your mind off things for an hour. You’re doing the best you can ❤️ best of luck xx

[Annie1609 in reply to Sunshine92]

Congratulations! On your pregnancy!

I know I just have to put on my positive pants. Your right about the trigger injections no more sore boobs ! Xx

[Stato]

There’s always a point for posting. And that’s what we’re here for!

I learned from the forum that symptoms could mean positive or negative and no symptoms could mean positive or negative. But it’s still so hard!

I’m having a low day too. It’s hard to know who to confide in. I don’t want to worry people! I’m telling a friend our story later tonight for the first time. Hopefully she will help me. Maybe you could think of someone for you?

Wishing you all the luck tomorrow. Let us know how you get on. X 🤞🏻✨ 🌈

[Annie1609 in reply to Stato]

Thank you for replying. Some of our friends know but most have kids now so I think it’s hard for them to relate. Or they have decided they don’t want kids xxx

[Feverdream]

I have lots of days like this. I wish you strength. I know there isn’t much people can say to make it better. It seems that with each pregnancy announcement I’m happy for them but I’m also devastated. These feelings are conflicting. Moan away

[Annie1609]

Thank you for replying. With ivf it feels like 80% of the time your just waiting around. I guess it’s not too long to find out ! 🤞

[Pinkybaby]

I feel the same way too. My OTD is Thursday. Just trying to stay positive.

[Luna_79]

Oh Annie, sorry to hear your having a tough day, wishing with all my heart you get your BFP tomorrow xx

[jengi]

Big hugs to you! Keeping everything crossed for a BFP for you tomorrow. I had no classic symptoms either despite having very high hCG levels. So don’t stress about the lack of symptoms. Best of luck Xx

[shia123]

Hi Annie congrates 😊, I had no symptoms initially until I turn 7 week preg and then until 9 weeks and after that again not many symptoms so don’t worry symptoms can be or not 🤗

[Hopeful2021]

Hi Annie1609

I had zero symptoms during my 2ww in July was convinced it was over. I still waited and tested on test day- was positive- I could t believe it

Sadly it ended shortly after as a chemical pregnancy.

But no symptoms doesn’t mean it’s over

Stay positive and sending you lots of baby dust xxxx