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Worst news confirmed 😔

Been for a 7 week scan this morning, to be told there was no heartbeat and no sign of growth since my scan last week.

Although it was the news we expected, as I have been bleeding for the past week it’s really hard to comprehend that it’s all over.

We have to go to our early pregnancy unit tomorrow so they can help move things along, I can’t handle waiting for it to all happen naturally as this past week has been torturous.

I’m absolutely devastated.

I’m going to come off the site for a while whilst I try and come to terms with what has happened.

Thanks to anyone that offered advice or support over the last few weeks, it’s been very much appreciated. Xx

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I’m so sorry to hear this news. What an awful way for the year to start when it should be full of hope and excitement. Take your time to do what you need to for yourself. Big hug x

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I’m so sorry to read this, no matter how much you think your expecting the news nothing stops the heartache.

The EPU will be able to advise your next steps but if you are struggling with the additionally waiting maybe a D&C would be the way forward for you. We’re all here if you need to talk, thinking of you xx

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I'm so sorry!! Sending hugs xx

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So sorry to hear this, take time to grieve to build yourself up mentally and emotionally. I really feel for you. Look after yourself, sending lots of hugs. xxx

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So sorry to hear this 🙁 xxx

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I’m so so sorry. It’s heartbreaking xx

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My heart goes out to you, having just gone through it myself. Its such a horrible thing for anyone to go through but even more when its been a hard battle to conceive in the first place.

Things will get easier but it takes time. Look after each other xx

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So sorry xx

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You’re in my thoughts, so very sorry, it is just heartbreaking when this happens. Take your time to grieve lovely xx

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I'm so very sorry to hear this. It doesn't matter how much you feel like you were expecting it, hearing those words is utterly devastating. Sending you strength and love at this awful time xxx

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So sorry. Take care x

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I'm very sorry, ❤️

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So sorry to hear such sad news. Thinking of you. Xxx

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I’m so sorry for your loss x

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Hello dear. I am so sorry for this news. My prayers are with you.

It is something quite difficult to face.

I am here to offer you my help in this difficult moment. If you need any help in seeking advice for upcoming treatments or to assess your health status. I know an excellent medical team that can help you.

I hope you can improve yourself. Many moods. There is still a dream for fulfillment.

My best wishes for you.

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Im so sorry to hear of your devastating news. So very sad. Thinking of you. Take care of yourself 😘 xxx

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So sorry to read this I’m thinking of you can’t imagine how it feels xxx

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So sorry to hear that. It’s your worst fears confirmed. Sending big hugs x

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Hello dear. I am so sorry that you are in this condition. You are a solid young lady. If you require any assistance in looking for guidance for forthcoming treatments or medications. There are several remedial groups that can help you. Just don’t abandon your dream. My prayers are with you. Much love xxx

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I am so so sorry for your loss..take all the time you need..we will all be right here for support when you need it..lots of love xxx

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Take care of yourself xxx all the best

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