Anyone else had a complete meltdown few days before Transfer? 🤷🏻‍♀️😭🤦🏻‍♀️💞

[Mrs14]

Morning All, so after our MMC at 12 weeks a few months ago, we are ready for our second FET this coming Tuesday!

I’m not sure whether it’s due to recent events but last night I had a complete meltdown worrying about the outcome... Has anyone else been like this or currently like this? 🤦🏻‍♀️❤️

I think the first time round I was almost ‘naive’ to what could go wrong so was super positive before transfer. But this time struggling to get that balance with emotions 🤷🏻‍♀️ .. Any advice much appreciated as always! 🥰💞 xx

[Hope04]

Hey hun,

Completely understand how you’re feeling. I’ve got my FET transfer Tuesday too!!

I feel sick every time I think about it, I’m just petrified of it not working!

Trying my best to keep positive but it’s so difficult isn’t it?!

Have you tried the Mindful App? That sometimes helps me and distraction is key for me!

Good luck on Tuesday lovely xxx

[Mrs14 in reply to Hope04]

Hey hun! Ahhh have you?! 🙏 Atleast we are in this together ☺️

Glad I’m not the only one that feels like this! Is this your first round??

I’m exactly the same - try to be positive and then I just get this feeling of dread if it’s not the result we want 🤦🏻‍♀️ It’s so hard to get the balance of not being too worried but not being too confident either 🤷🏻‍♀️😭

Ooo no I haven’t! I will definitely try this, thank you!... I’ve got my friend coming over this afternoon too to try and distract me for a bit as OH is a footballer and he’s back at work so I’ve got no distraction on the weekends 😭🤣

I have my fingers crossed for the both of us 💞💞

[Hope04 in reply to Mrs14]

Sorry for the delay in replying- I didn’t see the notification!

No this isn’t our first round. We did a round 3.5 years ago that failed but then subsequently conceived naturally. We did our fresh cycle in June/July but I got OHSS so did a freeze all. This is my first ever frozen transfer and it feels so weird!

Is this your first?

I know exactly what you mean about the balance. I really want to be positive but that feeling of dread is always there 😩

In my 2WW last time I went a bit loopy so I’m pulling out all the stops for distraction this time!

Do you know when OTD will be? Will you hold out until then? Xx

[Twiglet2]

I did a couple of weeks ago as last one end in a chemical so lots of worry this time that even if positive it won’t stay, could I go through that heartache again, what if I let everyone down etc.

Between that and the fact I had to go for transfer alone there was 10-15mins where I was like ‘that’s it I’m not doing it, it’s too scary’! But my wife reminded me that every time Is it’s own journey and outcome and not to worry about the past or even the future just now just take it one step at a time which really helped me As it focused me on the here and now only and let some of the excitement of transfer time creep in.

Wishing you lots and lots of luck for Tuesday 🤗💕Xxx