Needing some comfort

[LisaHarada]

Hi all, I am due to start my 3rd IVF next week , it will be my last round and I am anxious about it not working. At the same time, my best friend's daughter is expecting to give birth any time soon. So I am really stressed and under pressure. I had a quarrel with my husband today saying that he is not being understanding and supportive about me going through this. The quarrel went bad, he said he was going out to take a break. I got upset and felt that he is running away. In my frustration, I broke a plate on the floor. He quickly ran out of the door, then messaged me and said he will not be returning for safety reasons. I am totally devastated. Just needing to get this out and hopefully get a shoulder to cry on... 😭😭😭

[Same0508]

Hi... I know it Wil b frustrating!!! But do remember positivity is only key for implantation... No matter how many rounds buts it's ur body ur mind is responsible for a good environment for the coming embryo... Be positive... my husband was with me for first two rounds I fall preg second round he took off but I lost it at 7weeks now my hubby got no leaves left... We don't know what life unveils... Life is all about surprises... Find happiness in urself n don't let ur anger ruin ur hubby's peace... Remember our emotions r like a mirror u get back what u give to a mirror.... Y expect time from ur hubby? Instead u give ur time to him make him realise how caring u r n I'm sure u Wil get that time back from him. . ..Give some surprises to ur hubby.... Wil b praying for ur ivf round.. Gud luck...

[LisaHarada in reply to Same0508]

Thank you so much for the positive message and thank you for listening. ❤️

[Hidden]

If it’s helps I often fight with my husband befor I’m due to start a cycle I get very anxious and feel a lot of pressure and try to make life and everything go “perfect” but over time I have learnt to take things a day at a tome and deal with any hurdles as they come I know it’s so hard but try not to over think things I’m starting my last two rounds then we are done financially we can’t carry on I’m so scared of it ending with no baby it’s makes the pressure so much.my husband is sooo relaxed about thing he like what will be will be ,it’s not that they don’t understand or support u people jsit have different ways of dealing with things I ah e got angry in fights to mainly because I get sooo anxious and worked up don’t be hard on your self it’s normal to feel how you are xxx

[LisaHarada in reply to Hidden]

Thank you for sharing that story. I guess I am like you. I am very anxious as this will be my final IVF round. I will have to do better.