Bfn confirmed

[aamiller405]

For those that have been following todays tests came back as completely negative. So looks like a chemical pregnancy.

Were out again 😔 I just feel at this stage like someone somewhere doesn't ever want me to be a parent. Im surrounded by babies at the minute including a week old nephew. Just seems that everyone has a family except us.

This journey is really taking its toll on me. Its getting harder and harder 😔

[Kseye]

So so sorry to hear this 😕 It is so hard, this whole thing is so unfair.

[aamiller405 in reply to Kseye]

Thank you ❤️

[treezuk]

Please don’t give up this happened to me on 2/4 transfers and I went on to have twins on my 4th transfer so it can happen I know it’s hard to feel that way atm but keep going ❤️

[aamiller405 in reply to treezuk]

Thank you, really appreciate this ray of hope.. can I ask did you do anything different for 4th transfer..any additional testing or anything?x

[treezuk in reply to aamiller405]

We didn’t do anything different in the sense of meds other than my last 2 transfers I used a low dose fragmin injection because of my history of recurrent miscarriage we all felt it was worth a shot , I also did the NK cells test and a few extra bloods which all came back negative.

So I honestly think it’s down to pot luck.

[aamiller405 in reply to treezuk]

Thank you x

[Peanutchips]

Oh lovely, I’m so so sorry to hear this. It’s so heartbreaking and disappointing after testing positive. Make sure you take time to rest up and look after yourself though. This journey is so unfair and really takes its toll. Sending lots of love xxx

[aamiller405 in reply to Peanutchips]

Thank you xx

[Livinginhope2019]

I’m so sorry to hear this, sending you big hugs xxx 💕

[aamiller405 in reply to Livinginhope2019]

Thank you ❤️

[KiboXX]

Oh darling I’m so sorry to see this. Don’t give up though, I know it’s hard to pick yourself up again but there is still hope. Took me four times to get my sticky bean. Sending you big hugs today xxxx

[aamiller405 in reply to KiboXX]

Thank you, i really appreciate these stories of hope x

[Daughterofaking]

So sorry to hear this. May God strengthen you. Keep pushing for what you desire you will smile at last never give up. We shall all celebrate with yoo some day. Sending lots of hugs.

[aamiller405 in reply to Daughterofaking]

Thank you ❤️

[Cinderella5]

Awww honey, I know that feeling well! Im so sorry you are having to go through this again. Sending love and hugs.xx

[aamiller405 in reply to Cinderella5]

I know you do 😔... Thank you ❤️ x

[Solly-44]

I’m so sorry. I can’t believe how cruel this cycle has been to you. Look after yourself lovely xx

[aamiller405 in reply to Solly-44]

Thank you ..it def has been a rough one x

[Lovemylion]

BFN absolutely suck, absolutely horrible feeling after the money, emotional and physical energy that’s put into a round. I’m sorry you experienced a chemical. It’s so cruel. But please hang on there the next one could be a sticky bean! It’s crunching numbers. Xxx

[aamiller405 in reply to Lovemylion]

Thank you ❤️

[Hidden]

I’m so sorry chemical pregnancies are truly awful. Hope you have plenty of support around you. xxx

[aamiller405 in reply to Hidden]

Thank you ❤️

[Patches86]

I’m so sorry, this is heartbreaking. I can relate to this feeling. Sending lots of love and strength xx

[aamiller405 in reply to Patches86]

Thank you ❤️

[Hidden]

Im so sorry lovely. any type of a miscarriage is just heartbreaking 💔 Please take a good care of your self. it took me weeks to get over the cp. i was inconsolable. Perhaps weird to say but it did make me less naïve going through this journey. This shall pass my dear xx

[aamiller405 in reply to Hidden]

Thank you . No that does make sense ❤️ x

[Hidden]

I’m so sorry to hear that 😢 I was really hopeful for you. Take care of yourself xxx

[aamiller405 in reply to Hidden]

Thank you lovely x

[Hidden]

I am so sorry, I was cheering you on so loudly - gutted for you xx

[aamiller405 in reply to Hidden]

Aww thank you i appreciate that x

[Millbanks]

I’m so angry on your behalf. This journey is so f**king unfair. I hate it. Sometimes I wish I’d never even started on this road. I’m so sorry you have to go through this. I’m sending all my love to you - if you want to talk I’m here anytime xxx

[aamiller405 in reply to Millbanks]

Ohh i feel you!! ❤️ thank you xo

[Chel91]

So sorry lovely, it's not fair at all. Thinking of you xxxx

[aamiller405 in reply to Chel91]

Thank you x

[Picalilli99]

So sorry to hear this. We have been there too so understand how devastating it is to see those lines and then see them disappear 💔 I was really rooting for you. It is such a cruel and exhausting process. Look after yourself lovely. Big big hugs xxx

[aamiller405 in reply to Picalilli99]

Thank you and so sorry youve been through this too x

[FertileMind]

I’m so sorry... it’s heartbreaking . I had a chemical last time but it actually gave me renewed hope that it almost took, if that makes sense in a strange way!

I then doubled down on diet to reduce inflammation, removing chemicals, no caffeine or alcohol, very little meat (only grass fed organic) additional supplements, Tai Chi, hypnotherapy, reflexology, getting my mind right.... 4 in the freezer now...

Please do not give up hope. The mind body connection is vital. We can manifest our desires. We are strong and fertile...we had a chemical... why can’t our next one be a perfect healthy pregnancy? Big hug, thinking of you as you gather your courage too 🙏❤️

[aamiller405 in reply to FertileMind]

Thank you and best of luck in your next cycle xo

[Hidden]

Ahhh huni sorry to hear this, keep going chin up, were still waiting for appointment from rfc, hope it comes soon for us and I hope you find the strength to keep going 💖💖x

[aamiller405 in reply to Hidden]

Yeah unfortunately RFC seem very slow to get going..really hope its not much longer for you. Thank you x