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I am 5 week preg and accidentally I found my partner’s mobile and found many women he been cheated with and promised to catch up, my whole body started shaking and I noted all those numbers and he came from outside and we had big fight and my hands and feet were cold like ice and I was shaking and now he is saying sorry but I think I might lost my baby as this all happened 4 hours and I am v worried and stressful

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that’s awful!! Okay If you can try and calm yourself for the babies sake though as he is not worth your health or the baby’s. Concentrate on you right now and staying calm. Your earlier (understandable) fight has happened and there’s nothing you can change about it so worrying if it harmed the baby now will only add to the stress your body and mind is under. There’s a little bean that’s more important than any cheating man right now 🤗 xx staying calm and focused might also help you work out what to do about him 🙈!!! Xx

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shia001 in reply toTwiglet2

I am so disappointed and discouraged and in pain

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Emmaxxx

WhT an absolute W&£#%*. You need to think of you and your baby now. He is not worth the stress and he absolutely doesn’t deserve you. If he can do that to you now then he doesn’t deserve to in your life or your babies life. We are all here for you xx

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shia001 in reply toEmmaxxx

I feel as if I lost my baby and I am in different world as it was so painful that my whole body started shaking, cold and numb and I would not believe he was playing that many games behind me but we are sitting as strangers and he is saying sorry again and again

Please put your baby and your self first dear Shia. If he is the scumbag you think he is he is not worth your heath. Plz plz stay safe x

Im so... sorry to hear that. You need to focus on yourself and baby. This is just another mountain you have to climb. Right now it is about you and baby. i know it is difficult having to still see him day buy day but try not to let it upset you or bring you down. You are not the problem. Sometimes men lust over things they can't have and they don't appreciate what they have at home. They fail to realize that there actions can have such a negative impact on us especially during our early stages of pregnancy.

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