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Thank you ❤️Surgical management of miscarriage tomorrow at 7am

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Dear friends,

The biggest THANK YOU from the bottom of my heart for all your amazing, kind and supportive messages. The outpouring of love I have received from you in this despicable time is something I would have never imagined and something that literally allowed me to go through the worst night of my life. I have read each message and cried reading that most of you have gone through the same horrible experience 💔 it feels unreal 💔

I have just come back from the hospital, I was seen in the emergency gynaecology unit, where they did a scan and confirmed what we already knew.

I will attend the hospital again tomorrow at 7am for surgical management under general anaesthetic. I already feel better knowing I have a plan and from tomorrow afternoon I will be able to go back to my ‘normal’ life.

I can’t think about the future right now, only the present. It feels like a nightmare, but at the end of the day even nightmares end. I hope to wake up soon from this one. I just need to be patient, only I’ve run out of patience 🙈.

I hope to read many many good news from you ❤️You are amazing women ❤️You have ALL eased my pain with your words- and it’s not an easy thing to do.

THANK YOU MY FRIENDS ❤️

YOU DESERVE THE WORLD 🌍💋xxxxx

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Picalilli99

Oh Issy. I’m so sorry you are going through this. But I’m glad you are being looked after by the hospital and that you don’t have long to wait. Try to just take it one step at a time, hour by hour and try to be kind to yourself. Sending love and healing hugs your way today lovely and will be thinking of you tomorrow ❤️ Xx

Stay strong dear Issy. You deserve the world and you world will be full of sunshine soon. Praying for you for tomorrow i hope you get through that as a true warrior you are. And you know warriors are allowed to grief and to cry and to feel down for as long as you need. Stay strong ❤️

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Lots8788

Issy I am so so sorry. Glad you have a plan (we opted for medical management but didn't respond etc etc led to a very drawn out process!). I will be thinking of you tomorrow and sending so much love and hugs to you right now x x x

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Luna_79

Oh Issy, I’ve been away from here for a few days and have just seen your post, it made me cry - my heart is aching for you, I’ve seen you mr posts your so positive and full of love and support for others, your replies and posts are always such a delight to read. I can’t imagine how devastated you are to get so far to have to go through this now 😢 I know you’re hurting now and must grieve for all that could have been but I know from reading your posts whet a strong women you are and when the time is right I’m sure you will once again be in a place where You May feel ready to try again and when that time comes I pray with every inch of my being that you get your rainbow and will one day be a mummy xxxx

You are a strong woman Issy, we are all thinking of you ❤️ Remain strong

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KiboXX

Just wanted to say I’m sending you a huge hug, love and strength for tomorrow. You’re a beautiful warrior Issy xxxxxxx

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Cinderella5

Awww Issy! You're awfully kind considering the awful that you are going through! I'm very sad for you, been thinking about you all day!😪 You've been a big support & influence on the site since you arrived💕 Wishing you lots of love and healing.😘xxx

So glad you have a plan and you don't have to wait too long. Once the physical stuff is over you can at least start to grieve and deal with everything thats happened. Its a painless surgery and will be over super quick. Will be thinking of you, huge hugs again xx

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ttcemmie

Glad you've got a plan in place, but very sorry you have to go through this. Best of luck for tomorrow. You're a strong and lovely lady, but we're here for you every step of the way Issy. xxxx

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lmno

I’m so so sorry for your loss. I went through the same thing with exact same timings last Aug and there are no words to describe it. Praying your procedure goes well and that you’re able to heal in time. It won’t feel like this forever and there is still hope for the future, but take time to feel and grieve and do whatever you need to get through xxx

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CLDxxx

So sorry you’re going through this Issy.

You’ve made the right decision to have surgical management as it is so much less stressful and means you can grieve without that stress or delay and also your symptoms will go quicker too which helps you move forward.

Look after each other. This is a sad, difficult time but you will be ok.

Sending you all the love ❤️

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Tiddly1984

Look after yourself Issy and all the best for tomorrow...x

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Rainbowhope

Hi Issy. I have been thinking of you all day. I just want to say something to help but I dont know what to say. I'm just so sorry that this has happened to you. Nobody should experience this. It's the most heartbreaking thing. But you will wake up from this nightmare and be a warrior and try again until you reach your goal. I believe in you. ❤

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RhinoCat

One day at a time . Love and hugs 🤗 💐💐💐💐💐💐💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖😭

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ChloeL934

So so sorry. My thoughts are with you at this horrendous time.

Sending you all the strength. Xxx

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peapop33

I am thinking of you huni ❤️ I am so sorry x x x x x

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KayCan

Will be thinking of you tomorrow Issy. You've totally the right attitude, try not to think too far ahead, stay indoors and recuperate, have some lazy days and try and feel normal again. Once these strange days are over with, things might become a bit clearer. 💕

Lots of love and virtual hugs at this sad time xxx

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Jonesy84

So sorry to hear this! I can’t imagine what you are going through. You are in my thoughts xx

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Elle34Inz

Always here for you my wonderful lady your amazing xxxxxxxx 🥰🥰😘😘😘

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Patches86

Thinking of you for tomorrow morning. You are such a strong woman, true inspiration for us all.

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hifer

I am so so sorry. Really devastating news. I really feel for you xx

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Purplewitch18

Oh no, ive not been on here for a while so ive only just seen this. I know there are no words but im so so sorry this has happened xxxxx

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Corchi

Sweet issy, time is your only friend. That is what i found after 6 miscarriages. You are not alone, we are all in this together <3

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Tugsgirl

Wishing you a smooth and speedy recovery xx

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Leesara

Be thinking of you this morning xx

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Miracle43

Thinking about you, sending you love and hugs, I’m also having surgical management on Friday 😢. Stay strong ❤️❤️X

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Tryagain45

I'll be thinking of you today Issy and sending you much love and strength xx❤️❤️❤️❤️

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Twiglet2

Thinking of you today. Such a devastating thing to happen I can’t believe how strong you are 🤗 take lots of time to heal your body and mind over the coming weeks and if you need anything at all we are all here for you 💕 xx

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HollyT7

Thinking of you today ❤️ xxx

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Judy18

Thinking of you and sending love and hugs xx

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Maisie234

I went through the same thing in January. I had to wait two weeks and carry on at work. The next day I was positive but it hit me later on. Take some time off work and speak to people. I am ok now and you will be fine in a while. I promise. Thinking of you today. Xxxx

Thinking of you today xx

Hi Issy, I am so sorry to hear this. Sending you big hugs and love! I hope the procedure went well. X

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JoP32

So sorry you’re going through this 😔 Such a dreadful time. I hope today went ok (ie, smoothly) and you’re home soon if not already.

You WILL be ok. It might not feel like it right now but you will get your sparkle back. I promise.

Sending you big virtual hugs and will be thinking of you.

Take care of each other and be kind to yourself. Xxxx

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