Supplements Advice Needed

[PurpleLove19]

I know I might seem ahead of myself but I’m trying to remain positive.

After finding out on Tuesday that we had 4 eggs fertilised, I’ve been incredibly busy at work and not had much time to think about it. As good as that is, I really don’t think that it’s a good thing that I’ve not been able to give Myself time to just process this all.

I was in Tesco the other night and didn’t know what supplements to get. I didn’t know if the conceive ones would be any use or the actual early Pregnacare ones? Do you think I should buy the conception ones or the pregnancy ones? I’m taking folic daily but just wanted to get something else.

I’ve not heard off the clinic but I’m expecting a call tomorrow. Fingers crossed and prayers for my 4 little chicks 🐣🐣🐣🐣. If we have some or even one that’s a good grade then transfer will be Saturday.

I have spoken to one of my bosses at work about time off after transfer. There doesn’t seem to be any issue or negative feeling about it. I just need to confirm what I am doing.

I think being back at work has made me realise that it’s not the kind of environment I will be able to cope with everyday until my OTD.

I am a teacher in a special school, to a very demanding, unpredictable and noisy bunch. As much as they are the best distraction, I just wouldn’t forgive myself if something were to happen or if I am there in body but not in spirit.

I have felt a bit of a zombie all week. I have struggled to concentrate at times but have liked having my mind occupied.

Once I’ve had my call tomorrow I will make my decision and inform them.

I said to one of my bosses the other day, that anyone that’s had sedation and an intrusive procedure wouldn’t be back in work a day later like nothing’s wrong yet infertility isn’t a illness so we are expected to just get up and get on. I then expressed how much I underestimated the mental strain and she agreed completely.

I have said I will work from home, even though she said nobody would judge me if I was at home doing nothing and that I’ve got to give my body the best possible chance.

I feel I need to put my career second for the first time ever and plan some lovely things to do next week.

We are all in this unfortunate journey- so why not enjoy the smallest of perks. X

[Weareback2]

Sounds like your boss is being really supportive. You do what's you feel us best for you! I need to keep busy or would drive myself demented on Google so for me work is a distraction. I am aware that work is stressful/demanding but I try and find a balance; make sure I finish on time, have lunch etc.

Good luck xx

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I am taking the Zita West multivitamins (ordered online) but I heard Pregnacare is good too. Some of the supermarket brands don't absorb as well. Maybe ask ur pharmacist for advice for one specifically for TCC and early pregnancy?

Sounds like your boss is supportive but work is full on. Can you cut back on other activities outside your core work hours? Hire a cleaner to help with household chores? Easier said than done I know. Be kind to yourself and don't feel bad for putting your self care first right now. Go home as soon as you can and rest.

I found going in and out of the clinic was demanding, esp as their admin team were not organised, but only lasted a short time. After that I was back to normal hours. I have a desk job so that's a diff story to managing a classroom but manager was the most insensitive a$$, I couldn't tell her wat was going on. Good luck with your work 🍀

[DianeArnold Partner Nurse Fertility Network UK]

Hi PurpleLove. Whatever you decide, always make sure you have adequate Folic Acid and Vitamin D, as you need both until at least 12 weeks of pregnancy. Diane