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Got my beta results.. negative. I’m so heartbroken I can’t stop crying I can’t believe this.. I’m so broken. Just broken..

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FrancyItaly

Awww I’m so sorry to hear this. It’s already a difficult journey as it is. If you want to speak to someone you can PM me. I will hope and pray your baby will arrive soon 💕 your time will come!

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MiskyB

Really sorry, look after yourself. xx

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Keepingfaith85

Aww I just want to give you a big hug... it's the worst feeling 😥 I think cry it out & do what you need to. It's all just down to trial and error and chance and its do unfair that this time wasn't your time xxx

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Dreams1982

I'm so sorry hun xx sending bigs hugs and lots of love xx

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CLDxxx

So sorry darling. Sending love and hugs 💗xxx

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Raybeeming

I just don’t have it in me I’m trying to tell myself I’ll try again.. I’m so numb. This hurts so much

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Keepingfaith85 in reply toRaybeeming

You don't have to do anything right now other than look after yourself, give yourself all the time you need to grieve and be kind to yourself xx I'm here if you need to talk

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RhinoCat

Awh pet 😢 I have no words 🥺

You poor pet 💐💖

Hugs for you ,

This journey is the hardest thing ever. So unfair and cruel 😢

My heart breaks for you 💔

😔

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Bing84

I’m so sorry. Don’t be hard of yourself. Luck is a massive element. Look how far you’ve come already. Hang in there xx

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Raybeeming

Thank you everyone for being so nice and comforting. I don’t wish this feeling upon anyone...I hope everyone on here gets their bfp soon ..

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Emma_f in reply toRaybeeming

Am so sorry darling,,,our time is near by Gods grace,,,pls be strong,,do something to make u happy,,,All is well.lots of love and light

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Rainbowhope

I'm so so sorry.

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Mara84

I’m so sorry love! Our first cycle didn’t go well as well.... it’s really heartbreaking... I wish I could say something to help you. Look after yourself xx

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Raybeeming in reply toMara84

Did you try again? Did go work second time? I just feel so hopeless I feel empty.. for two weeks I would sleep every night rubbing my belly praying this worked and there was nothing there.. this whole time every symptom I felt i really thought this could be it.. but it wasn’t it was all in my head. I just want my period to come already so I can start my second round I don’t want to waste anytime 😞

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Mara84 in reply toRaybeeming

Honestly reading your message made me cry... honey I’ve been there it’s bloody difficult.. but when you are ready you will try again.❤️

Our first cycle was in November and we are starting a fresh cycle in the morning and I’m so worried that even can’t fall sleep... finger crossed.

I tried to stay on my diet as much as possible, try to avoid coffee and of course alcohol..

I hope you have family and friends around you, this is the time you need them. Xx

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Raybeeming

Be positive I really hope it works for you this time I wish you the best of luck really. Be happy and stay positive and hopeful it’s not impossible it will happen for us one day and I hope this is it for you.

Yes I do have family thankful for them. But honestly I just want to be alone right now. I just need tonight to just cry it out. Tomorrow is another day.. my husband is just as broken but is the type to bottle it up and it just kills me to see him hurt.. my heart just hurts. I need to sleep so I can stop feeling all this hurt.

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Mara84 in reply toRaybeeming

I was so excited for this round and now as it’s finally here I’m more anxious about the outcome... I do hope it work for us. I’m hopping you feel better.

Give yourself time, tell your husband how you feel and stay connected.

Sleep well xx

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Chantysal

So sorry to hear pls dont give up i know its a diffcult journey but u will get your positive. Our first an second cycle dodnt work out and we got our positive on the third try it will make u forget everything u went trough. Sending u love and hugs

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hifer

So so sorry to hear your news. Sending lots of love xx

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Twiglet2

Sending love 💓 it’s the hardest journey but you are not alone, I know and feel your pain. The only thing I can possibly say to help is that it does hurt a little less when we somehow pull ourselves together and start the rollercoaster again as the next one could be the one xxx

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Muppetgirl

Sending you energy to find hope again one day

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KiboXX

I’m so sorry to read this raybeeming. It’s ok not to be ok. Give yourself time. Sending you a huge hug xx

I’m so sorry to hear. It’s very difficult, I don’t blame you to feel broken. Try to put it behind you and think of other blessings in life. I wish all luck in your journey x

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Picalilli99

So sorry that it hasn’t worked. I totally understand that feeling of brokenness. Please know you are not alone and you will get through this. But for now try to take it one moment at a time, be kind to yourself, have a good cry and look after each other. Big hugs xxxx

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Cinderella5

I'm so sorry, its so hard getting a BFN. Ive been there many times myself & it doesnt get any easier! Be kind to yourselves, grieve, cry, shout....drink wine. Do whatever you need to to feel ok. Hugs.xx

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Cici85

So sorry for your BFN Raybeeming its such a difficult journey, my advice is try not to be too hard on yourself, cry and let it out but be strong.

I have just had a BFN and it’s so hard as well, it’s really having a toll on my relationship because we never talked about it since we got our BFN. It’s almost a week I have not spoken to my partner and we live in the same house, I hope and pray I can put it behind and move forward.

Sending you a very big and tight hug 🤗.Xx

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ttcemmie

Really sorry to hear this, my love. The grief of this journey is real, and raw, and awful. It's so unfair and cruel. Be kind to yourself and let yourself grieve. Sending you love.

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Sparklylife

I am so sorry 🥺 Sending you a virtual hug. It is heartbreaking wanting something so, so much. It is ok to be sad, so not saying don’t feel like you do, but hoping you can find an inner strength in the next few days that will bring that smile and energy back! I need to believe our time will come.. all the best!

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