Hello lovely ladies, not a good day for me. My usual pre AF symptom is still here and stronger no matter how much water I drink πon top of that, Iβm in a bad mood and thinking to test tonight when I get home from work. At least I am out of my misery. I know itβs a BFN anyway. Iβm planning to go straight into another FET, using our last embryo. Has anyone done that before? I donβt want to waste anymore time....
I hope youβre all in a better mood than me today π
1) 7dp5det is still too early to test - some people might get BFPs before that but many don't until afterwards - it will literally achieve NOTHING but either upset you or stress you if you get your BFP and its faint/wonky line etc!!
2) AF symptoms and pregnancy symptoms are EXACTLY the same
3) A headache can also be the sign of pregnancy - and can also be side effects of the progesterone
Try and be strong - but more importantly stay calm. I totally get how hard it is having done 3 previous rounds... but stressing isn't going to help your little embryo!
Good luck! Deep breaths! xx
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Wow Daisy, canβt say anything else than YOUβRE RIGHT πfor everything you said. AND you made me change my mind, I wonβt test π₯³ππ I canβt stand this headache anymore! π
I totally agree with Daisy1245! Remain calm and positive β₯οΈπ« I gave up hope too early and ended up having a chemical. Who knows what would have happened if I stayed happy and relaxed. It's so important, so dont lose hope π₯°
Yep agree, I wish I could see whatβs going on in my tummy! This βnot knowingβ and being tricked by the medsβ situations kill me! I donβt want to be hopeful because when I allowed myself to be back in 2016 I was so heart broken when I got the BFN (after a tragic EC and development) that I didnβt even want to talk about trying again until 2019 (silly mistake because Iβve wasted so much time but hey ho) ππππππWhen I see parents strolling with their kids at the mall I look at them as if they were driving a Ferrari πthinking Iβll never get one! (Excuse the comparison lol)
I know, its defo easier to take control and test. But most people regret it afterwards β₯οΈ it just made me 10x more upset and stressed. Next time I'm just going to wait for my OTD
Iβm in same mood but without the safe thoughts of an embryo in the freezer π€£π funny old journey πππ
I seem to wake up and feel emotional in mornings, take meds, calm down, level through day, negative at night, more meds, sleep, repeat . Hard to stay positive longer than day 5 I feel . But then again we ACTUALLY have no clue π€·πΌββοΈπ€ͺπ€―
All Iβm gonna try and do is stay calm and breathe until Saturday test day .
You can do it. Hang in thereππππππ
Hi Rhino, your emoji game is cheering me up πthis one is my fave: π€― ahahaha thatβs exactly how I feel! Looks like you suffer more those moments when you have time to think....try distract yourself more! (Says the girl who is at work and chatting to you all instead of working ahahah)
Letβs keep calm and carry on, FRIDAY is around the corner (not) ahahaha π€ͺ
Ya rascal! Go take some paracetamol and see if your head lifts! Iβve only had a couple of days of that but it makes you feel brighter. I defo think week 2 is crazier than first week of waiting π€£ππ thanks for sharing in my head melts ππ€£ππ
And also alwaya test in the mirning when your urine is more concentrated. Good luck. You are mot out yet. Head ache can be an early pregnancy symptom too. Good luck.
It is so hard to stay positive isnβt it but just yourself busy as much as possible. Eat, watch tv, go shopping, have a nap, do whatever take your fancy and donβt feel guilty about it! Hang in there, no long now x
Are you kidding me? What about that lovely environment all warm and snuggly? Without that the embaby wouldnβt have stayed ππthanks for the luck!!! ππ€π»
Hi hon, I had a 3BB transfer, with zero symptoms! Like felt nothing but headache and very bloated. Didnβt test early so just hold out .. Iβm now 18 weeks pregnant! Good luck and stay positive! Please xx
Omg I wish I could copy you girl! ππ€π»π thank you for letting me know and congrats on your pregnancy ππwishing you all the best!!! Xxx
Snap! I've been craving sugar all day and feeling argumentative with anyone that comes near me. I feel like this means my transfer didn't work. I keep thinking if testing early coz I know in my heart its over but my husband doesn't let me. I think I'm going crazy.
Hang in there Rainbowhope ππ well done not testing so far! I just read your story and think you are such a warrior with all you've been through π Wishing the very best for you π€
Rainbow, we got good husbands ππ itβs not easy keeping us from testing πππ letβs hold on!!!! ππππ€π»π€π»π€π»π€π»How are you love? X
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