Well this time last year I was possibly at my lowest and wrote a pretty depressed New Years message. Although this year hasn’t brought us our longed for baby, instead we’ve had 3 more failed transfers and our first positive which sadly ended in early miscarriage, I actually feel mentally in a better place. I have hope that we can get pregnant, and hopefully our baby is that much closer.
Don’t get me wrong I still have down days and the thought of starting a new FET in January is pretty scary, what if we go back to negatives, what if we have to go through another miscarriage?? But on this journey I’ve learnt we all have struggles in life and I’ve learnt to appreciate what we have.
Congratulations to all who had BFPs and babies in 2019, to those still fighting I feel this is one of life’s toughest journeys and everyone on it is so amazing and strong.
This forum is so supportive and helpful and I wish you all a happy and healthy 2020 with lots more rainbow babies 👶🌈🎉💕 xx
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Well done for staying strong & positive! I might be doing a FET in jan or Feb after 2 failed fresh transfers this year so maybe we should stay in touch for support? Best wishes for a much more positive year for you xx
Wishing you the best of luck in your next transfer - it’s such a roller coaster of emotions going through it all. Be kind to yourself and let yourself feel what u need to feel xxx
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