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Well this time last year I was possibly at my lowest and wrote a pretty depressed New Years message. Although this year hasn’t brought us our longed for baby, instead we’ve had 3 more failed transfers and our first positive which sadly ended in early miscarriage, I actually feel mentally in a better place. I have hope that we can get pregnant, and hopefully our baby is that much closer.

Don’t get me wrong I still have down days and the thought of starting a new FET in January is pretty scary, what if we go back to negatives, what if we have to go through another miscarriage?? But on this journey I’ve learnt we all have struggles in life and I’ve learnt to appreciate what we have.

Congratulations to all who had BFPs and babies in 2019, to those still fighting I feel this is one of life’s toughest journeys and everyone on it is so amazing and strong.

This forum is so supportive and helpful and I wish you all a happy and healthy 2020 with lots more rainbow babies 👶🌈🎉💕 xx

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CLDxxx

You’re amazing. Wishing you lots of luck in 2020. 💕

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Wehavethis

@core 🌟

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Solly-44

Happy new year lovely. I really hope 2020 brings you everything you hope for, and huge luck for your FET xx

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Core in reply to Solly-44

Thank you, hope all is going well with you xx

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Nuttybutt

Good luck core . Stay positive.

It's the most should destroying relentless journey in life keep going you will get there in the end x

@Core, thanks for your lovely message. Happy New Year to you! X

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FrancyItaly

I hope we will all get our rainbow baby this year! 🌈

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Xtina1234

Well done for staying strong & positive! I might be doing a FET in jan or Feb after 2 failed fresh transfers this year so maybe we should stay in touch for support? Best wishes for a much more positive year for you xx

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Core in reply to Xtina1234

Sounds a great idea it’s always useful having support from people at the same stage of their journey xx

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JoP32

Lovely message Core. Thank you.

Hopefully 2020 is your year!! Here’s keeping fingers crossed for a wonderful 2020 for everyone on here! Xx

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Liz22

Wishing you the best of luck in your next transfer - it’s such a roller coaster of emotions going through it all. Be kind to yourself and let yourself feel what u need to feel xxx

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Cici85

Hopefully this is our year. Happy new year 🥳

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