As many of you know 2017 has been particularly hard for me. I battled infertility and lost. I’ve lost two much wanted beautiful babies. It’s bought me physical and emotional pain. Surgery. I lost two of my much loved fur babies, three if you count the elderly (11 year old) bun I had pts in March. I’ve lost so called friendships along the way. I’ve had relatives I love deeply battle their own problems. I’ve had some clients I cared about pass away. I’ve been to more funerals than I would care to (I’m sure no one ever wants to go to those). We’ve had the new benefits system cut some of my OH’s benefits in all of their wisdom (just before Christmas) despite the fact that my OH is classed as severely disabled and always will be. 2017 you’ve been one of my toughest yet. I’m sure many of you have had your toughest yet too. And I sincerely hope 2018 is a better year for us all.
2017 has however, bought me new friendships. It was the year my OH asked me to marry him (we’re getting married June 2018). It has shown me how strong I am, more than I had ever given myself credit for. So although it mostly sucked, it wasn’t all bad...
So wherever you are on your journeys, good luck. May the new year make all your dreams come true ✨🤞🙏🏻 🌈 👶🏻 💕😘
Ps I almost forgot... 2017 was the year I got my fur babies Otto and Amber 🐰 xx
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Lovely post and 2018 will be your year hun. Congratulations to you both on getting married too lovely.
It's been a tough one but remember your tougher hun. We all are even when it feels we're not. Rip precious babies and fur bunny. You'll never be forgotten. 💗
Bring on 2018 so much positivity love and hope big hugs to you lovely 💗💗🤗😘😘
Wishing you a very happy 2018, I hope your dreams can come true, and all of the pain from 2017 can ease, as your life takes a new turn. So pleased to hear you will be married in 2018 that’s something wonderful to look forward to. Keep strong and I am sending you my very best wishes. I hope your Mum is ok I know she has struggled with watching all of your heartache, my best wishes to her xxx
I sure have (unintentionally) broken my Mum’s heart this year. Hopefully next year I’ll make her happy again.. Best wishes to you too and well done on being a lovely supportive Mum xx
woooooo hooooooo roll on 2018 and your wedding. .I remember hogmanay the year we were due to get married and it was such a fab time and toast😁. 2017 has been my worst year mind you I am sure I remember saying that last year but no this year topped that with 3 failed ivf to last year's one so who knows what 2018 will bring but I sincerely hope for all of us on here it brings our much longed for babies. ..I am also hoping it brings a little less weight 😂😂😂I am the biggest I have been in a long while but hey its not 2018 yet so where are the chocolates and wine 🍷🍷sending you much love misses your strength is to be admired...lots of love xxx
I hear you on the weight loss! I’m the heaviest I’ve ever been too 😕 No fad diets for me in the new year though, I’d rather be happier and curvier than thinner and miserable. I hope 2018 is your year too Vic xx
Well said, 2017 has been my worst year of my life loosing my little girl. But roll on 2018 for all of us. Happy new year and all the my best for your wedding xxx
Wishing you lots of luck and love for 2018. This year sounds as if it has been awful for you, but there is lots to look forward to it 2018 with Tommy's and your wedding. You deserve everything you wish for xxx
Your post brings inspiration to all that in spite of all life throws at us we are survivors and you certainly are one! Trusting and praying that 2018 will bring you and your OH much deserved happiness. Happy New Year to you both and happy wedding planning! Now that is really something to look forward to! Enjoy all the arrangements making. 2017 has been a painful year but tomorrow is a new year. May it be the year of all your hopes and desires.xo
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