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Hi friends

am back after my tragic situation one month back with my lovely dads cardiac arrest and passing and negative fet ,

still in state of numbness of my dad's loss and now I have suddenly lost interest in ivf cycle too.

Don't know if it's normal to lose interest this way...

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I am so sorry to hear about your sad story! Give yourself time to heal. You can do ivf again when you are ready. Sending you lots of good vibes and luck! X

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Keepingfaith85

Hi I'm not surprised you feel numb to it all right now, that's totally normal. My mum passed away two years ago and for the first few months I was just in shock. It took me ages to gear up for ivf emotionally and if I'm honest even now it's a struggle. Please do pm me if you need a chat ever xxx

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MissSaoPaulo

Oh hon, what an awful time for you, I'm so sorry. I think it's only natural that you don't feel you have the emotional energy for something like IVF right now. Sending you big hugs xxx

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Caitlin-m

You have been through so much, I’m so sorry for your loss. I’m sure it is absolutely normal to lose interest in lots of things after such heart ache. Just be gentle on yourself & take a break from this if you need to. It is hard enough to go through even without a major loss like a parent. Xx

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sadievalentie

Hey there! How are you? I hope you are feeling better now. I can understand why you are feeling this way. Losing a parent is a very hard thing. You should take a break and then try again later. For now just rest and relax. You don't have to rush into things. When you are ready, you will know. I am so sorry for what you are going through. I hope things get easier for you. Good luck. Take care. Stay blessed. Bye!

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LorrieWalden

Hi Sayusayme! How are you now? I am so sorry for that. Losing someone who was there for you from the time you opened your eyes is like losing your world. Nothing can even compare to the pain of that. I can understand that because of losing him, you are not interested in IVF. It's human nature, one bad thing can stop us from trying anything. That's why you need to rest and take a break. You go for IVF when you are fully recovered from your loss. It's not only your physical health that makes it work, but also it takes a lot of your mental strength. I hope things get better for you. Stay strong girl. Take care. Bye!

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Sayusayme in reply to LorrieWalden

Thx

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Alyssa123

Hi there! I hope you are doing better now. I feel so bad for your loss. Losing the support of your parents is not easy. They are someone who are always there for you and when they are not there anymore, it feels like you are alone. It's so hard to live without them, but there's a happiness inside that you can always go and meet them. But if even that is not possible, it feels like you are lost. So i can understand that you are not positive about anything right now. It's better for you to take some time off. I hope things get better for you. Stay blessed. Take care. Good luck! Bye!

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