Dreading a baby shower tomorrow!

[Ajplus1]

Baby shower shopping during the tww sucks ☹️☹️☹️

Attending said baby shower in the tww will also suck! Hopefully I can get through tomorrow without getting emotional!! 🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻

[Hidden]

If it upsets you then make up an excuse and not go.

[Ajplus1 in reply to Hidden]

I’ll see how I feel in the morning and decide then

[LunaLovegood11]

Tell them you’ve got the shits 😂💩 and give it a miss xx

[Ajplus1 in reply to LunaLovegood11]

Haha 😂 I will see how I feel tomorrow xx

[Hidden in reply to LunaLovegood11]

That's a good one and they won't want to know about that!

[Suzy86]

I definitely wouldn’t go. Make up some excuse, I haven’t been to a baby shower in years!! It’s just too much.

[Ajplus1 in reply to Suzy86]

I had my sister in laws earlier this year, it was horrible! The whole time I sat there thinking I wish this was me, Will this ever be me!

[Suzy86 in reply to Ajplus1]

They really are horrible. And all the fussing and baby talk. The last one I went to I drove home in tears and decided then I wouldn’t ever go to one again. Is this person someone particularly close? If they are then they should understand if you choose not to go. If they aren’t then I totally agree with the above 💩 excuse!!

[Hidden in reply to Suzy86]

Thing is explain you are happy for them but sad for your situation and real friends understand.

[Core]

I had one booked in my 2ww it wasn’t someone I was that close to so I didn’t go and I defo think it was the right decision for me xx

[Ajplus1 in reply to Core]

Wise decision. I think I will see how I feel in the morning xx

[Core in reply to Ajplus1]

That makes sense sometimes we can feel fine one day and awful the next xx

[Hidden]

To be honest I always make an excuse not to go, you have to put yourself first and be kind to yourself and if it is going to make you feel sad then I wouldn't put yourself through it xx

[Ajplus1 in reply to Hidden]

Xxx

[Shirazlover2013]

I’ve just pulled out of a big Christmas dinner with friends and I feel much better for it. Attending will be a friend with her newborn twins, we did our 1st ivf cycles together in February, she got twins and I have 4 BFNs in a row 😭 In the past I’ve often gone to triggering events and they’ve never been as bad as I feared (and it’s been nice to see friends at them) but I recognise there are limits and when you reach yours you have to put yourself first. There’s no right or wrong decision here. Good luck whatever you choose. Xx

[Ajplus1 in reply to Shirazlover2013]

Oh wow that truely must be tough. I feel you lovely ☹️ ❤️❤️

[Hidden]

Put yourself first & if it will make you feel worse don’t go.Personally baby showers not my cup of tea at all & I didn’t have one! Good luck with your 2ww hope it successful xxx

[Hidden in reply to Hidden]

I think baby showers are a load of crud myself!

[Ajplus1 in reply to Hidden]

Thanks hun, me too. Xx