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Says it all. This was my 2nd go with DE. Still doesn't work for us. Number 9 and 10 embryo failed again. Only ever been pregnant once with chemical pregnancy.

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Poppyhead

I’m so sorry, it’s utterly utterly unfair.

Xxxx

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Rainbowhope in reply toPoppyhead

Thank you xxx

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Picalilli99

I’m so sorry lovely. It’s so shit and totally unfair. Sending massive hugs xx

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Rainbowhope in reply toPicalilli99

Thank you xxx. Hate this feeling of helplessness.

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crisps88

So so sorry for you I really am. How devastating and heart breaking. Words won’t help but so sorry for your suffering xxxx

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Rainbowhope in reply tocrisps88

It helps to their are women who understand my suffering.

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Lavender96

Aww I’m so sorry! This process is so draining and unfair! Sending lots of hugs x

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Rainbowhope in reply toLavender96

It's so unfair. Can't understand why this keeps happening to me xxxx

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sun-and-rain

😢😢😢

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Rainbowhope in reply tosun-and-rain

Thanks xxx

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Missy_22

So sorry to hear this! Xx

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Rainbowhope in reply toMissy_22

Thanks hun. Xxxx

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Lots8788

So so sorry to hear this!! sending so much love and hugs your way x x

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Rainbowhope in reply toLots8788

Thanks so much xxxx

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Manu16

I’m so sorry x

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Rainbowhope in reply toManu16

Thanks hun xxx

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Scarlett13

So so sorry, it’s so unfair...do you have any donor embryos left from this round? Have you had your progesterone levels tested? X

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Rainbowhope in reply toScarlett13

Hi Scarlett. I asked my clinic to test progestrone but they said it wouldnt tell them anything. I made a point of insisting but they said they don't do it because it wouldn't be an accurate reading because of all the other medication I was using. They said they don't perform unnecessary blood tests. They decided against heparin etc. Again, said it's unnecessary. I've had trouble with progestrone in the past so they made me use lubion and Lentogest top up injections twice a week. I didn't bleeds I wonder if that means my progestrone level was okay?

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Refocus in reply toRainbowhope

Im so sorry to hear this. I've just started the 2WW of second transfer with DE. Im on lentogest too which is intermuscular so your progesterone levels should have been fine. My clinic didn't test this time either because with intermuscular they can guarantee its been absorbed Xxx

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Scarlett13 in reply toRainbowhope

If you’re using intra muscular injections that is the gold standard and if you didn’t bleed that’s another good sign that the progesterone was doing it’s job. Funny how some clinics can test and get accurate results despite all the other medication we are on?! X

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Lou7744

I’m really sorry to read this. It’s so disheartening. Sending you big hugs 💕 xx

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Rainbowhope in reply toLou7744

Thanks hun. I feel so disheartened, like I can't go on.

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emma2739

That’s so tough and unfair hope you have support around you xxx

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Rainbowhope in reply toemma2739

I have my husband and mum. That's it. I have you lovely women too. Xxx

I'm so sorry to hear ur story. Sending u a big hug. Try and be kind to yourself.

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TravelNow

Sorry to hear the bad news. X

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Cinderella5

Im sorry, I completely sympathise with you! Ive had loads of negatives too. What meds are you on? Have they tried to switch anything up? My clinic have tried to change things each time to potentially move forward....our last two transfers we got BFP's eventually but unfortunately we lost them. We are upping my progesterone this time and going to check my levels on test day. Hugs.xx

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Purplis in reply toCinderella5

Hi Cinderella5

Given Scarlett13 post yesterday on progesterone testing, why wait to test on transfer day? Or did I misunderstand you there?

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Cinderella5 in reply toPurplis

Im not sure what you mean as Scarlett had her level checked on day before transfer - but if I have my levels tested on transfer day that my clinic will make plans to adjust how much progesterone that I am on. I have a long history and we lost our last 2 BFP's....I had my progesterone levels checked after my last BFP and they were far too low at only 19nmol/l which suggests Im not absorbing the pessaries well. This time around I will be on pessaries and injections so hoping this is enough but we will up the meds if not and the levels can change quite dramatically.xx

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Tryagain45 in reply toCinderella5

Great advice...I'm gonna get mine checked too! Thank you X

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Purplis

Truly sorry for the news. Sending you lots of love and hugs at this time

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JojoWash

Oh god I’m so sorry x Keep strong x

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Kezzy1

I've had a negative result today too 😭😭

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Tryagain45

So sorry to hear your sad news. And it's difficult when you switch to DE because you kinda assume it'll just work and it can be devastating when it doesn't. I hope you'll be ok. And some great advice here about progesterone. I'm gonna get mine checked too. Take care xx

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