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Think we might have lost the baby

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Went for a 6week scan yesterday, I booked it mainly because I had a bad gut feeling the past few days.

Sonographer wasn't happy with what she saw, doesn't think there's a gestation sac visible even though there is something visible in my womb. But she's querying ectopic pregnancy. She sent me to A&E last night but there was an emergency in the early pregnancy department.

So I've been told to come back at half 3 today.. Doesn't look good though, the sonographer didn't seem to hold any hope for a viable pregnancy.

I thought it was finally our time and now it seems like it's all going to be ripped away from us already.. Devastated and hoping for a miracle but I just feel like its over

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Livinginhope2019

I just wanted to send you some hugs. Having been through similar myself I know how devastating it is. Stay strong xx

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aamiller405 in reply to Livinginhope2019

Thank you xo

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Dreamingofbaby

So sorry to hear this. Big hugs. Take good care x

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aamiller405 in reply to Dreamingofbaby

Thank you xo

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MissSaoPaulo

I'm so sorry hon xxx

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aamiller405 in reply to MissSaoPaulo

Thank you xo

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3005

So sorry hun, it must be so hard not knowing what’s going on atm. I hope you get good news this afternoon, stay strong xxx

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aamiller405 in reply to 3005

Thank you yeah just want an answer xo

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Cinderella5

Im so sorry, its just the worst feeling and to still be hanging on must be awful! Did they mention if they were going to do any bloods for you to check your hCG levels? Might be worth asking about.xx

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aamiller405 in reply to Cinderella5

Yeah I think they are going to do bloods, if not I'll ask.. Thank you xo

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Lolepops

I’m praying you get good news this afternoon xxx

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aamiller405 in reply to Lolepops

Thank you xo

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Klndmr

Hey hun. Such a terrible thing you are going through. I will be praying that the sonographer is wrong and you get some good news today! Sending tones of positive vibes and love your way 🤞🤞🤞🤞🤞💗💗💗💗xxx

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aamiller405 in reply to Klndmr

Really hope so.. Thank you xo

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Debrakay1704

oh hun, will keep everything crossed for you, just wait and see today, you never know. xxx

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aamiller405 in reply to Debrakay1704

Thank you xo

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HollyT7

Sending you a big cuddle xxxxxxx

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aamiller405 in reply to HollyT7

Thanks xo

Oh I’m so sorry to read this. Everything crossed for good news this afternoon for you. Hugs x x x

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aamiller405 in reply to

Thanks.. Will let you know xo

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Noah1981

Oh sweetheart it isnt over till it’s confirmed and I just hope maybe it’s still early days I will say a prayer for you and hope for a good outcome this afternoon lots of hugs and kisses going your way xxxx

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aamiller405 in reply to Noah1981

Hi. Sorry was bad news we've lost the baby xo

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Noah1981 in reply to aamiller405

Gutted sweetheart xxxx thinking of you both xxx

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Fingerscrossed38

Hi missy, how did your scan go this afternoon? Did you get any clarity on things? Thinking if you xx

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aamiller405 in reply to Fingerscrossed38

Just had a phonecall to say my HCG levels are only 2, so an early silent miscarriage xo

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Fingerscrossed38 in reply to aamiller405

Ahh geez this is awful news. I'm sorry this is happening :-( be kind to yourself, rest up and we're here if you need us. Big hugs xx

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Hope76

Oh my goodness so sorry to hear this really hoping it’s just too early. Let us know how you got on this afternoon. Really worrying time after so much joy am sorry you are going through this. Thinking of you 🙏🏻🤞🏼😘 xxx

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aamiller405 in reply to Hope76

Thank you but sorry to say its bad news.. Hospital confirmed miscarriage xo

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Hope76 in reply to aamiller405

Oh no am so sorry. This happened to me last year although I didn’t find out until 12 week scan. Nothing I can say can take away the pain . Take time to grieve and rest sending lots of hugs xxx

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aamiller405 in reply to Hope76

Thank you xox

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everhopeful83 in reply to aamiller405

So so sorry to read this 😞❤️ sending you strength at this terrible time ❤️xxx

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Lots8788

So sorry hun, hope all went ok at appt today and that it's positive news xx

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Faith103

I’m so sorry to hear this. I had an ectopic 5 weeks ago I was so upset. I knew something wasn’t right with my pain I had a gut feeling but I had a scan and it was confirmed ectopic....I was 6 and half week we collect our babies ashes in a few weeks. Please be kind to yourself and have plenty of rest. Hopefully this is not the same for you. If you need any advice feel free to message me. Xxx

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