Verdict - lost the baby.

Thank are no words to express this loss.

We have always said it's not the end we will fight and we will have our baby.

But for now ill avoid this site I'm grieving.

Wishing everyone the best xoxo

[Tugsgirl]

My heart just sank. Sorry for your loss xx

[romaluna2015]

Jess I'm so sorry 😞 . Take some time for yourself don't worry about the page . We will all support you through this when you are ready to talk . I'm always here for you xxx

[NDE1987]

Jess I am so so sorry to be reading this, honestly I feel so sad for you. You have been so kind to me and I cant just understand how or why these things happen. Please don't blame yourself, and just remeber you did get pregnant and it can always happen again. Please don't lose hope or faith. Were all here to support you. Always here if you want to talk xxxxxxx

[nikki85xx]

Sooo sorry Hun thinking of you both 😘

[Amanda86]

So sorry Jess 😢 It's utterly heartbreaking. Take care and take all the time you need to heal. Your a strong lady, I know you'll come back fighting when your ready. Sending so much love your way! Xxx 😘

[lau_har1]

Oh I'm so sorry for your loss! There are no words, no emotions and no amount of hugs that can take away what you are feeling now (I have been through it three times). My love is with you. Xx

[Cinderella5]

Oh Im so sorry for your loss for you both Jess! Sending lots of love xx

[7AVA]

So, so sorry and sad to read this. Take time to grieve. Thinking of you xxx

[Rainbow_86]

Oh god. I cannot imagine your pain..... I am so so sorry... Take care of yourself..... it is so so cruel xx

[Kimttcnumber2]

Oh I'm so so sorry chick for you both I was really praying for you , it's just not fair I'm here anytime you want to talk just be good to yourself xxxx

[Hidden]

oh i feel sick reading this Jess, I am just so so very sorry for your loss. There really are no words xx

[LisaMV]

Jess I am so so sorry. My heart just broke for you. Take time out for now and mind yourself xxx

[Poppy16]

I am so sorry to hear this Jess. Please be assured of my thoughts and prayers. I am always here if u want to talk. I have lost 3 times and know the pain,everything. My last loss was in March and I am devastated still. Nothing that any of us says will help right now other that you know you are in our thoughts. You are not alone in this. I wish I could take away your pain. Massive hugs.xo

[City74]

Jess I'm so sorry to hear this. You must be devastated. Thinking of you at this sad time xx

[AllWeNeedIsluv]

I'm so sorry Jess. Really hoped be good news. Take care hun and keep trying you know you can conceive now on the plus side. Rest up and spoil yourself big hugs 🤗 lots of love xx

[CountryCat]

Gutted for you!

I am so very sorry, after everything you have been through...now this.

Take great care of yourself at this terribly sad time xxx

[Hormomalmess]

So sorry Hun. Big hug xxx

[Hidden]

I'm so sorry, my heart sank for you both reading this. Lots and lots of love xxxx

[Hidden]

Aww Jess there are no words, so so sorry for you both xxx

[Macca13]

So sorry to hear this Hidden , take care petal and look after each other xxx

[katya38]

So sorry it's such an unfair world but your determination will get you through and now you know you can get pregnant that is a big step forward thinking of you and come back when u feel ready xx

[Aleelilook]

Oh god I'm so sorry Jess, take your time, one tiny step, and be kind to yourself. This is just heartbreaking xxxxxx

[E_05]

So sorry for your loss, take all the time you need to grieve xx

[London7]

I am so so sorry Jess. Like everyone else I was really hoping this was your time. I hope you are able to do whatever you need to grieve and get trough this. You will, even though it probably doesn't feel like it right now xxx

[Hope_4_2017x]

Oh no im so so sorry xxxx

[sanj76]

I'm so so so sorry to read this news Jess.... we are here to support you anytime ok.

[Bibble-2016]

Oh Jess I'm so so sorry that's awful. Wishing you lots of love and compassion at an awful time xx

[Hollibob]

Look after yourself lovely..sad day x

[misswinky34]

I'm sorry 😞

[Claire_cullen88]

Sorry for your loss. Thinking of you both xx

[Hidden]

Just want to say I'm really sorry. Look after yourself. We will be here when you're ready x

[Hidden]

So sorry to hear this....

[Hidden]

Heartbroken for you. You know where we are if you need us. Xxxx

[Hidden]

I'm in utter shock and disbelief at reading this. Words can't express how sorry I am. Take all the time you need to grieve your loss and heal your heart. Thinking of you, Jess xxx

[jupiter1234]

I'm so sorry Jess sending my love

[Lou9]

So sad to read this. I am so deeply sorry and will keep you in my thoughts. ❤️

[_MrsC]

I'm so sorry Jess. My heart breaks for you. Know that you are in my prayers. xxx

[Fredaflintstone]

So sorry to hear. Sending hugs xxx

[Hampshiregal]

So very sorry for your loss. Thinking of you x

[Leesalou]

Big hugs so so sorry for your loss,

Take care of your self cx

[SeniorPhipps]

Such sad news, I'm so sorry to hear this. I totally understand you taking some time out from the forum. Take care of yourself and each other xx

[Bluebelle1]

Oh no I'm so sorry Jess. Take your time and look after yourself. Will be here for you when you feel like you can come back. Hugs. xxxx

[Hannah143]

Awwwws Hun 😘💔 my heart brakes for you, take your time and we will be here for you when you come back. Big hugs xxx

[Nickimidge]

Jess81! I've been reading your posts for a while now and this is the first time i've commented, really felt i needed too, i'm absoloutly heartbroken for you! Try to stay strong and look after yourself. Sending all my love 😘 xx

[Oakey80]

Oh no! So sorry to read this...truly horrible! As the others say, take all the time u need...thinking of you xxx

[Gueritarubia]

Don't know what to say, how horrible... thinking of you xx

[Lou290901]

I'm so sad for you. Lots of love. X x

[Elou81]

So very sorry to hear this Jess. I can't imagine how you are both feeling. Thinking of you at this very sad time and sending you a massive heartfelt hug xx

[Macavela]

I am so so sorry to read this. Life can be so very unfair. You are a wonderful, strong, determined, caring person. You and your DH be good to one and other and know that we are all behind you❤

[kelsbels88]

Oh Jess I'm so so sorry

I don't know what to say please just know I'm thinking of you both at this time.

We'll be here when your ready to talk

Take care sending hugs xx

[Hidden]

So sorry Hun thinking of you both x

[sunshineyellow]

I'm so sorry for your news xxx

[LG10]

Jess my heart just hurts for you reading this. I am so sorry for your loss. You are right there are just no words. I will be thinking and praying for you ♥️xxx

[A-Jay-]

Oh god!! My heart sank.. crying.. 😢

[Hidden]

Very sad to read this. Sending much love ❤️

[Lizzielizzielizzie]

Oh f*ck.

remember lots of us on here know what you are going through and when you're ready, there will be listeners on here xx

[Jaky76]

Xxx big hugs.. So sad for you. Xxx

[Sherry07]

Oh Jess, I'm so sorry. Thinking of you; I've been there. No words can describe the pain x

[pm27]

I'm so sorry, it seems so unfair. Take time to grieve and recover. Sending you a big virtual hug.

[Lucyloo81]

Aw Jess this is heartbreaking look after yourself xx

[robbie03]

I'm so so sorry for you, I can't imagine the grief...thinking of you so very much! Hold your other half so very tight and don't let go. Lots of love xxx

[Lind1607]

I'm sorry to hear about your loss , I hope you find the strength to carry on in the future with your dreams xx

[NsKaz]

I'm so so sorry. My heart sank when I read your post. Just so heartbreaking. Sending love at this terribly sad time xxx

[Hidden]

I'm so sorry for your loss. Thinking of you both xx

[Sarahmanc]

Oh my darling life can be such a bitch. There aren't any words to take away your pain but just know that we'll all be here to support you when you feel ready to talk again xxx

[tiger-cub]

So sorry dear . Absolutely no words . Thinking about u . ❤️

[Kelly-03]

So so sorry to hear this xx thinking of you xx

[LHow81]

So sorry for you loss. Take care of each other xx

[Loopielu]

I'm so sorry to read this. Sending a hug and lots of love xx

[Bumblebee15]

Thinking of you Jess. Look after yourself xx

[Evie1]

Thinking of you Jess, no words 😶 xx

[vic77]

Oh no..I am so sad to read this..huge hugs..take all the time you need and we will be here waiting when you are ready xxx

[ClarabGlasgow]

My heart just sank. I am so sorry for your loss. It is amazing how you feel like you know people on here & have a wee image of what they are like. From posts you have written you seem like you are a great support and counsellor for others but this is your time to take comfort from others. Take care and time to grieve for your sad loss, we are all thinking of you xx

[Nesfin]

Im so sorry, take time to grieve. My hear goes out for you xoxo

[MrsTom]

Really sorry for your sad loss. Cannot imagine what you are going through right now X x x

[Loopylou2015]

I'm so so so sorry for your loss. Big hugs being sent. Hold on to the positive that u did get pregnant this time so hopefully next time all will be perfect for u.

[Clare_lou]

Jess, I'm so so sorry. There are no words. Look after each other and try to hold onto that somehow you will get through this pain. Sending you love xxx

[Daisypop]

So sorry Jess x

[krw345]

Oh Jess I'm so so sad to read this. Thinking of you xx

[Hopeful28]

So sorry for your loss. The one thing about this sight is there are always people who have went through the exact same if you ever need an ear to vent. 💞

[Gem11]

I m so sorry for you both, nothing we can say can help you heal but please know our preys are with you both xxx

[bluewanderlust]

So sorry for your loss xxx

[Se99]

I'm so sorry jess, stay strong x

[Hidden]

I am overwhelmed by the amount of responses I have received and thank each and every one of you. It has brought tears to my eyes. I go from being Ok to bursting into floods of tears. It was a horrible time- esp when a chav girl who looked about 14 loudly said how she heard her babys heartbeat and I felt so angry- who does that in EPU ?!! I thought why was her fuck up Ok and our beloved baby not.I have self refereed myself to Steps to wellbeing- six years of trying and now a pregnancy loss- I need help and I want to get myself into a better mental state for trying and pregnancy. This is not the end and we be trying after my next cycle. Another cruel blow- my pregnancy symptoms are increasing despite losing the baby over 2 weeks ago. Good luck to you all and I will be back xoxo

[kelsbels88 in reply to Hidden]

Aww bless you hunnie. Please

Know that I'm thinking of you as

I'm sure we all are.

Sadly this whole journey is quite cruel at times but we will all get our bundles one day, give yourself time to grieve and when your ready come back don't rush anything we'll all be here when you're ready

Hugs xxx

[Shamrock16]

I'm so very sorry to read this, life is just not fair sometimes. You seem like such a lovely, caring person from all your comments on here. Take good care of yourself. Xx

[7AVA]

Thinking of you Jess. Such a hard time. Xxx

[Leesara]

Thinking of you oxo

[WeeMrsH]

I am so sorry Jess ❤️

[Hidden in reply to WeeMrsH]

Thank you lovely but this has proven to us we can conceive which after 6 years is massive progress. Although we are sad for what could've been we will not give up. xoxo

[WeeMrsH in reply to Hidden]

That is exactly what you need to keep hold of Jess, you conceived naturally, and after your endo was treated! Doesn't take away the heartache, I know that. I am seeing a consultant in October about a possible diagnostic laparoscopy... it won't be a magic wand I'm sure but I've a bit of hope we too can conceive naturally (after 3 MCs following IVF) if an answer is known. Hold onto that positive step and your body maybe just need that extra month or two to really get back to normal and prepare...next time could be the one 😘❤️ xx

[Hidden]

That is great news. I can't understand why endo isn't ruled out as part of fertility investigations- it's crap that's why we couldn't fall and it's not by chance I fell after it was treated!!!

As there is nothing left from miscarriage I can try after my next period which isn't long to wait. The endo has a chance of returning so time is of the essence for me.

I don't understand how they treat something they don't the cause to- it makes little sense to me.

I'm sorry you've suffered losses it is heartbreaking 💔

Further investigations is definitely a positive step and I hope you get answers xoxo

[Hidden]

Only just seen this, I'm so sorry sweetheart! Thinking of you both, huge hugs, this journey can be utter crap can't it 😔🌹xxx

[Hidden in reply to Hidden]

It is shitty journey but we won't be beaten! This is not the end. Although we are saddened over what might have been we are taking the positive out of this- we can get pregnant naturally. We will trying again after my period luckily all the remains had gone so not long to wait to start with a more hopeful attitude. The positive test has given us belief we can do this xoxo thank you for the kind words xoxo

[Hidden in reply to Hidden]

Spot on, loving your positivity!! So many pregnancies end up as miscarriages and most women don't even know it's happened! Getting pregnant is the main problem in fertility issues and you've done that 👊🏼 and you'll do it again, get those swimmers working 💪🏼💪🏼! xxxx

[emiraven62]

I'm so sorry. I was thinking about you and how things would have gone. I hoped that everything would have gone well. I'm so sorry for your baby and for you. I can not find the right words to make you feel better. It is a very sad news

I send you my best wishes and hope things can improve soon. A hug.

[Sweets1]

Im only just seeing this, I'm so sorry for your loss,. Keep fighting! Thinking of you x

[nellynel]

Bloody he'll sorry jess just seen this now