Unexplained infertility hopes?

[sammejayne]

Please someone give me some hope I’ve been ttc nearly 4 years never been pregnant is there any hope for me???

[Ourbaby1]

Hi Hun do not loose hope hun of course u can get pregnant. I was trying for 9 years had one failed ivf cycle 1 month after the failed cycle I fall pregnant naturally soo greatfull.. so I would say please do not loose hope .. if u don’t mind me asking have u been to the doctors what did that say?

[sammejayne in reply to Ourbaby1]

Yes have been to dr, said I need ivf xx

[Coral86]

Ahh bless you are you thinking about starting ivf ? Have you been to your gp? Don’t give up I was in the same situation I’m not starting ivf after 3 years of trying xx

[sammejayne in reply to Coral86]

Yes been to gp as been trying so long said I need ivf xx

[Coral86 in reply to sammejayne]

You just have to do anything that will help if you are wanting it so much I feel your pain took me a while to adjust to the fact couldn’t have children naturally and except the help xx

[sammejayne in reply to Coral86]

Thanks Hun, my husband has a daughter so previous gp I was with didn’t help with funding, we have moved recently as the Ccg is slightly different where they help if the child doesn’t live with you and she lives with her mum so currently re doing some STD tests and then hoping to get help.. my husband doesn’t earn a lot of money so then it’s added pressure on me to find the money if we have to pay all of those thoughts in my head are just driving my crazy every month I am up and then I am down it’s a viscous circle x

[Hidden in reply to sammejayne]

Oh wow that is fantastic news that you might be offered funding with this different area, thats real progress! Good luck with your tests etc x

[sammejayne in reply to Hidden]

Well I’m hoping so but again all that is causing huge anxiety x

[looploopy709]

Hello Hun. We were also given the same reason of unexplained infertility. I was about to start the IVF process and managed to get catch naturally a month before. Please do not give up hope x

[Kempton]

Me and my partner's fertility was deemed unexplained. He had top quality sperm, bloods showed I was regularly ovulating so we just didn't know what was going wrong. It was discovered I have a low ovarian reserve, but I don't believe that's necessarily a barrier to conception.

From our first ivf cycle, we got 2 blastocysts and the second transfer resulted in my son. With none remaining, we decided wed see if we could conceive again naturally and boom, the first proper month trying I conceived naturally. We couldn't believe the pregnancy test!! I'm due to give birth within 2 months.

I hope my story gives you hope. We also ttc for around 4 years before we had our first. It seems ivf reset my body.

Good luck and I hope you have a positive journey.

[sammejayne in reply to Kempton]

Looks like I need to have ivf then xx

[staaa88]

I was trying for 4 years and now pregnant after first round of IVF. I still have no idea what was wrong, I ovulate regularly, husband has good quality sperm and we are in our early 30s (I started TTC at 27) fingers crossed it will happen and all the worry and fears you have will be a distant memory. Good luck xxx

[Firefliesintuscany]

There is always hope.

My GP tried to conceive for years, went through IVF several times and after giving up hope fell pregnant naturally at 40.

As long as you've had all the recommended tests to make sure there is nothing underlying then there is definitely hope.

x

[Militarywife7]

Me and hubby were ttc for over 2 years, and I got to the point where I was getting desperate and wondered if it would ever happen for us. We had unexplained infertility too, its frustrating as you want answers. We had our first round of IVF in May and I got pregnant on my first transfer. I feel extremely lucky and im so glad that I went down the IVF route even though it was daunting at the time. Wishing you all the best xx

[sammejayne in reply to Militarywife7]

Wow congratulations, I dream of that day x

[Militarywife7 in reply to sammejayne]

Thank you sweetheart, I feel extremely lucky. Hang in there strong lady xxx

[Heres_Hoping]

My husband & I were diagnosed with unexplained infertility, he has high quality sperm, apparently all in order my side.

For eight/nine years we tried everything, from kinesiology to Clomid, from visualisation to acupuncture to diet to Chinese meds to Naturopathy to Homeopathy, you name it, we tried it ALL. One month became two, became six, became a year, then more, until finally last year I realised how many years it had been, & that it really wasn't going to happen without more serious intervention. I was broken, I had reached the very, very end of my tether, I was an absolute mess.

Because we had left it so long, although I was still ovulating regularly, it was decided to opt for an egg donor. Our first round (a fresh round), ended in a chemical at seven weeks. Our second transfer (frozen), was performed roughly two months after the first, & I am now 12 weeks pregnant with twins.

I had honestly all but given up hope; although now in my (very) late 40's, my husband & I proof that there is always hope.

All the very best on your journey, keep the faith x