Hi, I've never joined a group before but thought I would to feel I'm not on my own. 23 cycles in and no further forward, all tests say everything is fine but it's not happening for us. had a recent birthday which I found upsetting. I'm finding the constant disappointment each cycle a lot to deal with. I'm told to "relax" and it'll happen, but I don't feel like myself any more! I've tried everything and am trying to look after myself - but feeling quite sad about it all. Anybody else in a similar situation?