Unfortunately it was another BFN for us this morning ☹️
I’m a bit numb I guess, feel a bit silly for even thinking it could be positive. I even dreamt it was last night. Trying to be ok, and tbh I feel a lot better this time than last. I think the unknown drove me insane - at least this time I know they’ll probably let us go again in 8 weeks.
Things I am grateful for today...
I will not be injecting progesterone anymore (I bloody hated them with a passion, and they weren’t even the ‘bad ones’!)
I can and will get really, really drunk this weekend!
We are hugely lucky to have lots of Frosties on ice.
Just got to push on I guess! Xx
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Oh no hun I’m so sorry. Wish it had been better news ☹️Love your positive attitude think it’s inspirational you’re a strong lady ( you might not feel it right now) & you will come back fighting & you will get your BFP 😊 Treat yourself to all the things you can’t do pregnant ( I know it’s a crap consolation☹️) let your hair down & come back fighting 💪🏻You can do this xoxo
I'm so sorry Solly. I was looking out for an update from you. You're very strong to be able to look at the positives in a time like this. I'm sending you lots of hugs xxx
I am sorry This is so hard. Hugs to you, I know there are no words that will help you at this moment. Give yourself the time to grieve and come back even stronger. xx
I am sorry to hear that. I failed one cycle last year. It’s the built-up expectation that causes big disappointment. When I talk about it now, I am quite calm about it. Hope you get over this soon.
So sorry Solly I am feeling very similar at the moment ... had a chemical pregnancy confirmed yesterday, this process is so horrible and difficult. I have had some wine last night to get over it ... I have another embryo and then if it doesn’t work out, I will have to go through the entire process again xx Hope next time we will get our positive 😘 hugs
I’m really to read that you had a bfn this morning. You have a lovely positive attitude and I don’t blame you for treating yourself to a drink or several! 💕 xx
Awww Im so sorry! It is really hard and our mind plays tricks on us, I usually dream about testing a lot and I wake up not knowing what is real and what is not. Try to enjoy this weekend, I usually have a blow out after my BFN's....get drunk and eat junk, you bloody deserve it! Glad to hear you have lots of frosties though. Take care, hugs.xx
I'm sorry it wasn't good news for you this morning. Have a good old cry, a couple of drinks and back on it in a little while. Your frosties are waiting for you xxx
Urrgggghhh that sucks, I’m sorry to hear your results. Your attitude is amazing, such a strong person. I hope you have some fun getting drunk this weekend 🤪
I’m 2 BFNs down from 2 fresh cycles, never had anything to freeze. It’s fab you’ve got some Frosties still, may one of those be your rainbow baby 🤞 and yeah avoid those progesterone injections next time!!
Thank you lovely. I just read through your last post and it literally could have been written by me today. We’re both so lucky to have Frosties left but I can’t help but wonder if mine are all just dud? I think the big snotty crying is about to begin! 😂 but really 😭 xx
Sorry about your news this morning. Had the same myself on monday after our first round.
Well done to you for looking at silver lining of having a drink this weekend. I've decided I could learn something from your positive attitude, so just poured myself a glass of wine (small mercies!)
Thinking of you and everything crossed for your next attempt xx
So sorry, nothing worse than a BFN. I’ve had 2 so can relate. Did you have embryo glue ? Reason I ask have never been offered it & am thinking of insisting on it going forward as will try anything that will help. So pleased you have more Frosties good luck with the next go 🤞🏼🍀
Lot of mixed reviews about it. Depends at my clinic which consultant you get. They recommended I don’t get it due to too many risks. Yet am hearing of others at same clinic offered and took it and their FET worked. Am confused and annoyed at the inconsistent info given x
Oh damn, sorry to read this! As you write, good to look forward and start planning your next transfer. Lucky you have Frosties on ice (so do we!). Crossing my fingers for your next round! Xx
Hi Solly I’m so sorry to hear! I know exactly how you feel I am on the same boat! Didn’t even make it to OTD coming Sunday. I had heavy bleeding Tuesday evening 10dpt5dt we had Natural FET. I was so broken hearted 3am yesterday as it didn’t stop. We just need to bulldoze the next step again with lots of hope & faith!! You are not on your own, Hun xx
I had all the sign and was thinking this could be it. Yeah I’m with you! Let’s get that mimosa this weekend!! Sending warmest hugs xxxx
Rang the clinic yesterday, they are the most supportive and helpful people, right? but they’ve ask me to do the test as planned on a Sunday. Its like what you have said - very demoralising I am bleeding heavy like heavy! And seeing that BFN on Sunday is like rubbing salt in my wounded heart but I have to do it. We need to decide if we want another FET or fresh Cycle. Might sched for treatment planning again nextweek I still have 2 Frosties left I don’t know I’m not in the right headspace to think about complexities of it all.
You still have Frosties are you hoping for another FET anytime soon? Have you consider/heard about endo scratch? I don’t know how effective it is. I’m scared I’ll get infections 😓 xxxx
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This is so hard. Hugs to you, I know there are no words that will help you at this moment. Give yourself the time to grieve and come back even stronger. xx
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