Bleeding In my 2WW on 10th day 💔

[emiliajj]

I had my 1st BFN last Apr from fresh cycle ICSI, we had 3 Frosties left so then we decided to do Natural FET. 17July, I had my transfer and today 10dpt 5d blastocyst. Another failed transfer 😔

I don’t know what to do! I am so lost and heart broken. I could stop crying since 3am as I was having heavy bleeding. The disappointment is crashing me 😔💔 My DH is very kind and comforted me he said will do another FET 💔💔💔 I don’t know if I can do a 3rd cycle!! But I know we shouldn’t give up..

Should I do the endo scratch next time? Have anyone had an endo scratch and Natural FET resulted to BFP?

[DianeArnold]

Hi Emilia. So sorry t hear that this cycle was not to be. God to hear that your husband s being so supportive just now, as it is a lonely place to be. I was wondering whether when you do decide to try again, whether having heparin injections might help or low dose soluble aspirin. They work as blood thinners, and ensure a nice even blood flow to your womb lining and works to prevent any clot formation. My thoughts, but something to put to your specialist before you try again. Diane

[emiliajj in reply to DianeArnold]

Thank you so much xx I phoned my nurse and and explained I have been spotting since Monday then it stop then light bleeding yesterday and yesterday evening was the heavy bleeding until early hours of today. She said that it’s quite early for me to bleed but still do the Test on my OTD which is this coming Sunday. I will suggest what you said thank you Diane Xxx

[SunnyDream]

Dear Emilia! You can't even imagine how good I understand you! I have already had 2 MCs and two failed cycles each of which was very heard. But you know, the desire to have a full family, good support from the side of my hubby, my friends, relatives and even from the clinic didn't allow me to stop! Please, do not lose your heart and hope! All the efforts will be blessed sooner or later as our faith and strength make wonders!

Baby dust to you hun!

Warmest hugs

xx

[emiliajj in reply to SunnyDream]

Thank you so much.. really appreciate your kind words. I know I’m not the only one and this is my 2nd attempt and still very fortunate to have 2 Frosties left and love and support of my husband and family. It’s just I was so hopeful it could be this month. Really great to have so much support in this community and lovely ladies here like you thank you xxx

[SunnyDream in reply to emiliajj]

You are right hun, support is very important for such people as we are as it is a hard path and nobody wants to be alone during their journey. It is so great to have people to socialize with and who are in the same boat with you. We have similar problems, similar topics to discuss and can help each other in solving them. We can share stories with happy endings and point out inspiring thoughts and positive emotions. Sad stories may teach us something we should or shouldn't do...

[emiliajj in reply to SunnyDream]

Couldn’t agree more! I am on holiday this week just giving myself a space to think things through and have a clear head space to tackle whatever treatment plan coming next. It’s really hard my sister in law just had a baby and my cousin is pregnant and she’s due in August. It pains me everytime I see them but I am very happy for the. I know my time will come xx

[SunnyDream in reply to emiliajj]

Your time will definitely come sooner or later. Through the past years, I understood one important thing that everything we did, do and will do, will have a sort of trace on our destiny. If we don't stay on the same place but keep going ahead, have a clear mind and positive thoughts, if we are kind and work on a self-development all the time, all these efforts are prized at the end! Don't stop and keep moving, dear! Baby dust!