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A bit of a different post for fulfilling even the smallest dreams. Last night one dream came true 😍 I attended a Backstreet boys concert, been dreaming to see them live for 20 years (lol that makes me feel old 😁)

For few hours I totally forgot about ivf, ttc, injections, pressaries, pregnancy tests, consultations etc. I felt like a normal human, human who actually has life different than ttc only. I woke up this morning and thought that since We started ttc i forgot to enjoy my life and this MUST change!

Fighting infertility shouldn't stop us living our lives. Life is short enough, all our dreams will come true sooner or later 😍 Don't forget to do things for yourself cause at the end of the day this is your life and you need to enjoy it, like Will Traynor said at the end of "Me before you" "Just live well. Just live.." 😍😍😍😍

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Drives

This is so true!!

Looks like you had a fab time. Little jealous πŸ˜‚πŸ€£ x x

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Klndmr in reply to Drives

Oh God the best night of my life hahahhaha After the age of 10 I was in love with them and their music, I had all magazines and posters, all their albums and cause I come from quite a small country I never ever thought I will see them live hahahaha. But you seee, dreams do come true πŸ˜πŸ˜πŸ˜πŸ˜πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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Drives in reply to Klndmr

You are hilarious. This really made me chuckle!! πŸ˜‚ Glad you got to tick this off the bucket list!! x x

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Klndmr in reply to Drives

Good I'm glad it made you laugh hihihi πŸ˜πŸ˜πŸ˜πŸ˜πŸ€— If they come again I would definitely go 😍 I did regret I didn't spend few extra pounds for standing tickets next to the stage and will regret that for the rest of my life 🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣

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Drives in reply to Klndmr

πŸ˜‚πŸ€£πŸ˜‚πŸ€£

Brilliant

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Cinderella5

Awww loved the backstreet boys!πŸ˜³πŸ€£πŸ˜‚ Well done you, another tick in the box for lifetime achievements!!πŸ™ŒπŸ»πŸ™ŒπŸ» sounds like you had a great time!πŸ€—πŸ’žxxx

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Klndmr in reply to Cinderella5

The best time of my life haha xx

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everhopeful83

Aw lovely, I’m glad you enjoyed it, lovely pic🀩xxx

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Klndmr in reply to everhopeful83

Thanks hun xx

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Dreamingofbaby

Awesome. Ahh that would take me back. They have some great songs!! Good for u Hun! Very true too. Def great to have those experiences and continue to live. We deserve it as we only human☺️. Enjoy hun xx

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Klndmr in reply to Dreamingofbaby

Absolutely. As you said we are only humans and definitely need to remind ourselves how worthy we are β€πŸ˜πŸ€—xx

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Lots8788

Lovley pic 😊😘 sounds like you had a great time xx my sister and I saw Spice Girls at the weekend ✌ lovley to do things completely unrelated to ttc and all that comes with it xxx

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Klndmr in reply to Lots8788

Yesss so good not to think about it. I loved Spice girls too but BSB were always first in my heart 🀣xxx

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Lots8788 in reply to Klndmr

πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ‘ŒπŸ‘ŒπŸ˜˜xxx

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AnnieAnnie

You are so right! I have made this my mission for the last few months and am gradually trying to get me and my life back. Glad you had an amazing time looks like your OH did also. This is what is important, still enjoying life and smiling together no matter how sh$# life can be at times xx

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Klndmr in reply to AnnieAnnie

He didn't want to come tbh hahah but was quite impressed with their performance and singing πŸ˜πŸ€—xx

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Rowly88

Great post xx hope you had a great time xx πŸ˜€

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Klndmr in reply to Rowly88

The best time of my life haha xx

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Scarlett13

Very true x

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Klndmr in reply to Scarlett13

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Reer

Hi, how were BSb? I was unable to go. Kevin was my fave. I was the the same as you posters on my wall... all the songs. Watched some on you tube as I couldn't make the concert. Were they fab?

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Klndmr in reply to Reer

They were more than fabulous omg. I wouldn't mind going tonight as well hahah. Their singing and dancing and the attitude to the fans omg absolutely fantastic πŸ€—πŸ˜β€xx

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Sunshineraye

I did the same with the spice girls. It felt amazing to just have fun and not have a care in the world. Xx

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Klndmr in reply to Sunshineraye

Absolutely! πŸ˜πŸ˜πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—

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runsoncuddles

I hope you had a great time... I do love the boys... yeah ... and i want it that way xx

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Klndmr in reply to runsoncuddles

They were perfect hahahha so so soo good πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—β€β€β€xx

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hannahding

Hey, that is great. It is very important to do such things. Really help your mental state. Also, give you a mental break. I am glad you had fun. A little bit of fun never harms you. Good luck to all on this journey.

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Klndmr in reply to hannahding

Definitely! Little bit of fun would only do good thngs for us πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—β€β€β€

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Rainbowhope

Totally agree. This is a beautiful post. X

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Klndmr in reply to Rainbowhope

Thanks hun 😍❀

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Alpatchino

I love this post. I am so happy for you, that you got to do something you really wanted and enjoyed it!!!!!! Live life well!!!! 😘😊

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Klndmr in reply to Alpatchino

Trying my best lol 😍 Hope you are doing well hun xz

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Noah1981

So true we get so carried away with FTC and wrapped up in just that that life really so pass us by great attitude to have I’ve always said what’s ment to be won’t pass us by πŸ₯°πŸ€žπŸ₯°πŸ€ženjoy life and hopefully the good things will come xx

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Klndmr in reply to Noah1981

Good things are just behind the corner 😍❀😍

Good luck with the following i hope they behave themselves and grow enough πŸ˜πŸ€πŸ€πŸ€πŸ€žπŸ€žπŸ€žπŸ€ž

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3005

Yes! I love this

I felt like that recently... I’m off to see Bon Jovi this weekend and seen as I’m still not pregnant I plan on having a few glasses of vino and dancing round like an idiot πŸ€ͺ

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Klndmr in reply to 3005

That's what i did 😬🀣🍷 Few glasses of wine and couple of mojitos 🀣 and sang my heart out hahaha. Hope you had a fabulous time on Saturday 😚😍xx

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lolly2019

Post failed ivf round I’m on day 50 of my cycle waiting for AF to show up and just wanted to say thanks for posting. You’re so right. I know it. Just needed reminded. I don’t feel fun or like life is enjoyable now, but that’s not true. I still laugh and enjoy things just need to start doing more and recognising these moments! Thanks again x

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Klndmr in reply to lolly2019

Absolutely! Most if the days im really pushed myself to go out do things and see people. But once I'm out i feel much better. Im on day 31 waiting on af after my chemical and is so frustrating ... But that's life, we have to fight back and carry on πŸ˜πŸ˜πŸ˜πŸ˜πŸ€žπŸ€žπŸ€žβ€β€β€πŸ€πŸ€

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Hope4usall

Love this. Thanks for posting xx

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Klndmr in reply to Hope4usall

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MereenPulvizjk

Hello hun! Thanks for motivating us! It's really helping; I'm also undergoing the same path. I'm also a TTC for nearly 8 years. I'm glad that you're a strong person. You're so right! I've also adopted the same way of not compromising on my life, of not leaving my dreams. TTC can be very hectic and life-consuming, but yeah. I've outgrown just like you. I've had a failed IVF last January. So, yes! Now, I'm undergoing another attempt later this August in Kyiv. So, I completely agree with you. Two weeks back I came back from our 10 days trip from Baku. We are still living our life the normal way, as it should be. Wish me luck with my case! Sending you baby dust all along! :) :)

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Klndmr in reply to MereenPulvizjk

Yes we have to always remember we are only humans and we live once! We shouldn't let the disappointment and heartache to lead our lives! Best of luck with your next attempt hun πŸ€πŸ€πŸ€πŸ€žπŸ€žπŸ€žπŸŒˆβ€πŸ˜ Sending lots of baby dust your way xxx

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Loulou852009

This is so true! Stay strong and live life xx

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Klndmr in reply to Loulou852009

Trying my best 😍🀞😚😁

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