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Well I don’t really know what to say feeling absolutely gutted OTD today and I knew from days ago really as you can see from my previous posts it was a BFN now got heavy bleeding and shocking pain just want to say thank you to all the ladies who have supported me through all this.... words can’t even describe what I’m feeling right now 😢😢😢

Good luck to you all xx

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Cinderella5

I so sorry to hear this, its so sad to get a BFN. Sending hugs.xx

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Sexy376 in reply to Cinderella5

Thanks Hun I’ve cried since yesterday xx

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Cinderella5 in reply to Sexy376

Just do what you need to, whatever gets you through this. Ive had 4 BFN's and its rubbish. Hold onto each other tightly, cry, eat, drink and maybe even plan a treat for yourself in a few weeks to reward yourself for going through this!xx

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runsoncuddles

I'm so sorry, sending you lots of love xx

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Redbadger

I'm really sorry to hear this. Take some time to look after yourself x

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Sexy376 in reply to Redbadger

Thanks Hun xx

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Sunshineraye

So sorry hun, know how ur feeling. I’ve been resting since my heavy bleeding and Having therapy at the clinic today. Sending hugs, be kind to yourself xx

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Sexy376 in reply to Sunshineraye

Omg I can’t believe how heavy it i was a complete mess yesterday xx

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Sunshineraye in reply to Sexy376

I know hun, it’s horrible. I still feel drained from the amount I’ve lost :( xx

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Kitcat12

Oh I'm so sorry 😞 look after yourself lovely x

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Sexy376 in reply to Kitcat12

Thanks Hun xx

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Bozo_the_pumpkin

I am sorry you got a BFN. Sending you lots of hugs xx

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Sexy376 in reply to Bozo_the_pumpkin

Thanks Hun xx

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SaraMusk

Oh No Im very Sorry Hun I know the Pain, Sending you Hugs Please Take Care of Yourself xx

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gemmy999

I’m really sorry 💔 I know how your feeling 😢 I’ve cried everyday since Sunday 😢 it does get easier although it doesn’t feel like it now. Take care of your self. Xx

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Sexy376 in reply to gemmy999

Thanks gemmy it’s so hard it don’t feel like it gets easier but I know your right I was thinking about the hystoroscopy I keep hearing about to see if there is any problems xx

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gemmy999 in reply to Sexy376

I think any teat you can do that might show a reason is worth doing. Another thing ticked off. Hope your ok. Crying is a good release so do as much of it as you need. I sure am 😢 xx 🤗

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Shirazlover2013

😭 I’m sorry too. You can see from all the posts here you’re not alone. Sadly there’s quite a few of us, myself included, feeling the after effects of recent BFNs (mine was Friday just gone). It’s just so shit. Look after yourself, cups of tea, crap tv, chocolate, wine, keep the box of tissues close by and the pain killers if you need it too. When you’re ready to make some plans again it can help to have something to head towards whether it be another round, a FET (if you’re lucky enough to have any Frosties), a holiday, a break, a job change. I’m off sick today and will head out to have a mani pedi, first time in >1yr, sod the chemicals right now 😝

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Emma04

I’m so sorry, it’s such an awful feeling after all that you go through to get to this point. As others have said take care of yourself, and when you are ready talk to your clinic about a follow up- I always find my follow up appointments give me some comfort x

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Drives

I'm so sorry to read this. Sending you lots of love 💕 x x x

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HM_3

I tested same time as you. BFN, bleeding and worst period pain. It's a bummer and I'm so very disappointed after all these weeks of IVF treatment. I was so hopeful. There is nothing that we can do now so time for a big holiday to forget about this for a moment and then start again in a few months. It will happen when/if it's meant to happen. That's what im saying to myself. I'm thinking of you today x

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Dody2019

I am really sorry for you. I can imagine how hard it is. Sending hugs

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Missy_22

I’m so sorry this is so hard. We are all here for you xxx

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Elynn

So sorry, big hug 🌹

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Seha04

I’m sorry dear, I know how it feels, I also had bad news last week. Have lots of rest, it’s ok to cry and let it all out. 😢

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Sexy376 in reply to Seha04

Hey Hun how are you? It’s been so so hard but feeling a bit better now xx

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