I’m so scared

[Grace5777]

Good morning all,

Today is the day for my FET and I’m so scared.

I’m not scared about the procedure, I’m scared for myself. This is transfer number three the first one wasn’t so bad I just came on my period during the 2WW the second however broke me! We made it to the scan and they informed us that there was no heartbeat.

I’m such a strong woman normally but today I’m so scared I can’t stop shaking and thinking that I might just lose my s***!!

I just needed to air this!

Grace

[Lots8788]

Ah Grace x sorry to read this and sorry for your loss. Wishing you lots of luck for transfer 3. You're braver and stronger than you think. you've got this x big hugs

[Greyeverything]

Absolutely heartbreaking and totally understandable that you feel like this but the fact that you have embryos frozen to transfer is so positive and if you can get through what you have already been through you can get through anything. The strength of all the ladies on this forum amazes me every day. It’s absolutely sh*t that we have to go through all this when other people get so lucky. You are allowed to feel worried and scared just don’t let it take over. Hang on in there, good luck!!! X

[Dreams1982]

Aww I'm so sorry to hear that hun xx wishing you lots of luck for today xx

[Hidden]

Hi I’m 3dp5dt today following FET with a grade B embryo. I understand how you feel. It has taken 6 months for us to reach the point of transfer again after a mmc of twins early November at 9 weeks and our last cycle being cancelled. We have to be in it to succeed but it’s not easy. I’m now forcing myself to have the attitude of what will be will be but it hasn’t stopped the what ifs creeping in! Good luck today, we are strong and we’ve got this!! Xx

[Cinderella5]

Awww Grace, sorry for all that you have been through! You're stonger than you think to get through it all. Wishing you all the best for transfer and it if you have a few tears and lose your sh!t then who cares....sod it!! Hugs.xx

[MofM]

I can totally relate. My first cycle was a total disaster: very few eggs collected, low fertilisation rate despite using ICSI (my parter's SA is fine), only one made to blasto, which I miscarried at 6+5. Waited three months for my period and starting with priming next week, with my second EC estimated for early June.

I’m also scared, can’t stop thinking and I may as well just lose my s*** sooner or later

On the other hand, what can we do? We should grit our teeth, and hope for the best!

Wishing you all the best! Hugs xxx