Viability scan tomorrow- I’m so scared 😱

Hello lovely ladies,

Hope you had a good weekend.

Mine was quiet, didn’t do anything in particular...

My viability scan is coming up tomorrow and I have all sorts of bad thoughts and fears going through my mind. Since Friday I had a little more cramping and instantly thought something is wrong 🙈🙈🙈

I’ve received lots of encouragement from you already on this and I’m just waiting for the time to pass- and get to tomorrow 9am...I have barely slept last night 😱I can only imagine how tonight will be 🙈

Anyway, sending lots of love to you warriors ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️We are such warriors aren’t we????

I’m so grateful for this community ❤️🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻

[amandac84]

Aww good luck for tomorrow! Xx

[Hidden in reply to amandac84]

Thank you Amanda 🤞🏻🍀

[ttcemmie]

Good luck for tomorrow. Can understand the anxieties, but tomorrow will be a great day! Sending lots of love. xxx

[Hidden in reply to ttcemmie]

Thanks Emmie, I really hope so 🍀🤞🏻❤️

[Mmmpudding]

I cannot wait to hear your update tomorrow morning. Best of luck Issy. Big hug x

[Hidden in reply to Mmmpudding]

Thanks pudding hun 🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻💋💋💋💋💋💋

[Mmmpudding in reply to Hidden]

How are you feeling Issy? Still cramping? Is it like a stretching kind of feeling? Not long until your scan, so I hope you manage to get some quality sleep before the big day thinking of you xx

[Hidden in reply to Mmmpudding]

Cramping on and off...sometimes it feels like AF still 🙈sometimes like a bowel movement ahahaha sorry but I don’t have another way to explain it 😂😂😂either way I hope it’s good news xxx you’re so sweet as always thank you Hun 💗xxx

[Mmmpudding in reply to Hidden]

I guess if you weren’t feeling anything you’d be equally worried 😦. So stay positive and look forward to your update tomorrow morning.

[Hidden in reply to Mmmpudding]

Thanks Hun xxx 🌸

[FrancyItaly]

Cramping only means your uterus is expanding to make space and your baby is settling in well into what will be his/her home for the next 8 months. I understand your fears though. Wishing you all the best for tomorrow! Hugs from warm & sunny Amalfi Coast, I hope some good air will help me get pregnant again, it did last time!

[Hidden in reply to FrancyItaly]

Thanks Francy, your wise words always go straight to my heart! ❤️Wow I loooove the Amalfi coast 😍enjoy and have some seafood spaghetti for me 😋😋😋fingers crossed for you 🍀🤞🏻🍀🤞🏻🍀🤞🏻🍀🤞🏻

[Cinderella5]

Ahhhh best of luck for tomorrow, Im sure those hours are dragging for you!xxx

[Hidden in reply to Cinderella5]

Thanks Hun, hope you’re feeling better ❤️🤞🏻🍀🤞🏻🍀🤞🏻🍀

[Hidden]

We are in the same boat, lucky you being one day ahead. No worries, we will all celebrate with you tomorrow ❤️🤞🏾

[Hidden in reply to Hidden]

Thank you Alidees, wishing you the best of luck to you too 🍀🤞🏻🍀🤞🏻🍀🤞🏻🍀I really hope we can all celebrate! Xxx

[KayCan]

Good luck for tomorrow Issy 💕, these early days are so stressful but tomorrow is another milestone for you and I'm sure all will be ok. Cramping, although stressful is just your body's way of getting prepared to house a baby. You will get more of those I can guarantee it 🤪Just trust that everything will work out just fine ❤❤

ps, it may be another sleepless night tonight, but you will definitely flake tomorrow once you get your appt over with 😴 lotsa love xx

[Hidden in reply to KayCan]

Thank you Kay ❤️I’m so all over the place today I’m crying at work 🙈🙈🙈🤞🏻🍀🤞🏻🍀🤞🏻🍀🤞🏻🍀🤞🏻🍀

[KayCan in reply to Hidden]

Get yourself home love, work comes second to this. xx

[Rachy2020]

Good luck tomorrow! I am sure it will all be fine. I am nervous too. My viability scan in this Thursday. xoxo

[TTCWithCHSweetheart in reply to Rachy2020]

Good luck Rachy. I really hope it goes well xx

[Hidden in reply to Rachy2020]

Thanks Rachy, to you too Hun 🍀🤞🏻🍀🤞🏻🍀🤞🏻🍀🤞🏻🍀we can do this!!!! X

[TTCWithCHSweetheart]

Good luck. I really hope it goes well xx

[Hidden in reply to TTCWithCHSweetheart]

Thank you so much ❤️🤞🏻🍀🤞🏻🍀

[franathy]

Hi Issy,

Sorry you're feeling so anxious, I felt exactly the same when I was at the stage you're at. Was obsessively googling MMC, blighted ovum etc and freaking myself out with all the stories online about it happening and convinced there would be nothing there at the scan. It was so stressful!

The thing to remember is it's really quite rare for this to happen, but it seems so much more common on here and online because obviously people come on here for support when things sadly go wrong.

The likelihood is everything will be absolutely fine and you will feel much better after your scan. I still felt quite anxious tbh all the way up to my 12 week scan but I'm definitely starting to relax more now and the time is going much more quickly (16 weeks now). Just take it one day at a time.

By the way cramping is totally normal I had loads from about 6-10 weeks.

Looking forward to reading your good news tomorrow xxx

[Hidden in reply to franathy]

Hi Hun, thank you so much for your kind words, they really help you know? ❤️Awww 16 weeks 😍is your bump showing? How cute! Must be such an amazing feeling ❤️🤞🏻🍀🤞🏻🍀🤞🏻🍀🤞🏻🍀🤞🏻🍀thank you again

[Italy300618]

Lots of luck for tomorrow issy I'm sure all will be well xx

[Hidden in reply to Italy300618]

Thank you Italy 🇮🇹 Italy is actually my country, you know? 😍🍀🤞🏻🍀🤞🏻🍀🤞🏻🍀🤞🏻🍀

[Italy300618 in reply to Hidden]

Is it? You're a very luck lady then! I got engaged there and honeymooned there, my favourite place in the world 💗 xx

[Hidden in reply to Italy300618]

Awwww how romantic must have been! 😍xxx

[Lots8788]

Wishing you lots of luck xx

[Hidden in reply to Lots8788]

Thank you lots 🍀🤞🏻🍀🤞🏻🍀🤞🏻

[KiboXX]

I completely understand the fear but you’ve got this Issy 💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻

Hope you manage to get some sleep tonight and I look forward to seeing your good news tomorrow xxxx

[Hidden in reply to KiboXX]

Thank you very much hun, I really hope so! Hope you two are well ❤️🤞🏻🍀

[Picalilli99]

Wishing you lots of luck for tomorrow lovely xx

[Hidden in reply to Picalilli99]

Thanks Hun, I really appreciate it ❤️🍀🤞🏻Hope you’re well? X

[K84k]

Good luck for tomorrow 🍀🍀

[Hidden in reply to K84k]

Thank you 🍀🤞🏻🍀🤞🏻🍀

[Rainbowhope]

Best of luck to you sweets.🙏🙏🙏🙏🤞🤞🤞🤞

[Hidden in reply to Rainbowhope]

And to you!!!! 🍀🤞🏻🍀🤞🏻🍀🤞🏻🍀

[JojoWash]

God don’t!! So have I! I’m booked for 10:50am in uk. Absolutely petrified. I’m going to be a mess. Last two pregnancies ended in MMC

[Hidden in reply to JojoWash]

Hey Jojo!!!! Wishing you all the best 🤞🏻🍀🤞🏻🍀🤞🏻🍀🤞🏻🍀🤞🏻Let’s get some positive news! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[JojoWash in reply to Hidden]

Mine done 7+3 weeks and heartbeat 💗 Another in 2 weeks 🤞🤞

[JojoWash in reply to Hidden]

How was yours?

[Hidden]

Don’t worry my lovely you are going to be all good xxx sending lots of positive vibes sweetie you will be all good ❤️😘❤️

[Hidden in reply to Hidden]

Thank you Elle ❤️Xxx how are you?

[Hidden in reply to Hidden]

I’m alright although just feel in limbo - got to wait for scan and blood test on Friday! The numbers are rising but slowly! I’m not in pain though but I am getting intermittent bleeding but mainly in the morning and evening don’t have anything! Trying to keep positive ❤️😘❤️😘❤️ How excited are you xxx

[Hidden in reply to Hidden]

Jeez I hate limbo! But you’ve been SO cool and strong about this I really admire you 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻😍😍😍you got this babe!!! Keeping positive is good we shall do that 🍀🤞🏻🍀🤞🏻🍀🤞🏻I’m more worried than excited but working on it 😉you ladies are really helping! Xx

[Hidden in reply to Hidden]

Thank you so much my darling xxx you are helping me so much I really appreciate your support ❤️😘❤️😘❤️

[Hidden in reply to Hidden]

Thinking of you and rooting for you always! 💕

[Hidden in reply to Hidden]

🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

[Michael30]

Ahhh good luck hun! You will be absolutely fine and can’t wait to see your little bean growing ♥️♥️♥️Xxx

[Hidden in reply to Michael30]

Awww thank you so much babe xxxx 💞

[peapop33]

Good luck xxx ❤️

[Hidden in reply to peapop33]

Thank you peapop 💗xxx

[ChristineB05]

Good luck hun.

Will be thinking of you, sending you loads of positive thoughts and wishes xx

[Hidden in reply to ChristineB05]

Thank you so much Christine 💕🙏🏻Really appreciate it! Xxx

[JoP32]

Awww, bless you lovely. I’m sure lots of people have probably said already but cramping isn’t a bad sign! It’s your womb expanding to make space for little one! I can totally understand you feeling anxious but I’m sure everything will be fine and tomorrow you’ll get to see your babies heartbeat for the first time!

I’ll be looking out for your post tomorrow. And for now, breathe.....

Sending you lots of love xxx

[Hidden in reply to JoP32]

Aww thank you Jo, I’m a bit of a mess tonight...💗💗💗💗

[JoP32 in reply to Hidden]

Bless you. We’re thinking of you. I really really hope everything goes well this morning. Everything is 🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻 for you xxx

[Tugsgirl]

Good luck for tomorrow morning. It’s only natural to be full of nerves xx

[Hidden in reply to Tugsgirl]

Thanks Hun xxx

[Core]

Good luck for tomorrow, hope you get some sleep tonight xx

[Hope4another]

Good luck for tomorrow x

[HelenJudi1]

Good luck!! x

[Fluffysocks89]

Wishing you all the best for your scan lovely, hope you managed to get some rest🍀❤️ xxx