12 weeks scan

[Debrakay1704]

We have our 12 weeks scan on Wednesday and the starting to feel negative thoughts, we had a scan at 7 weeks 4 days and all was perfect (heartbeat), I just cannot believe that this is really going to happen (3 natural pregnancy loses), and we will get to finally tell people! I know that we are so lucky to get this far as not everyone does. Sometime you read things and the bad stories stick rather than the good ones. I Just wish I could be more positive about it, still feeling so tired so praying everything okay in there

[Lots8788]

Congrats! wishing you a healthy and happy pregnancy x x

[Debrakay1704 in reply to Lots8788]

thank you. x

[Cinderella5]

Its only natural to feel nervous especially when you have suffered previous losses. Im wishing you so much luck for your scan, fingers crossed everything is just fine!!xxx

[Debrakay1704 in reply to Cinderella5]

thank you. xx

[Debrakay1704 in reply to Debrakay1704]

just wanted to check how you are doing?x

[TTC35_Dubai]

Thanks a lot for updating .. Absolutely need positive stories more as it gives assurance and hope..

[Debrakay1704]

thank you. x

[Purpledazzle27]

I felt so nervous every time I went for a scan. I would start dreading it and think the worst. The relief when they said there’s the heartbeat was immense. It did get easier with each scan. Only two more sleeps to get through xx

[Debrakay1704 in reply to Purpledazzle27]

thank you, my partner does not understand why I have negative thoughts, that is why this group is good. x

[Debrakay1704 in reply to Debrakay1704]

congratulations on your little miracle too. x

[TTC35_Dubai]

Sorry did not congratulate .. Wish you a very happy, positive healthy pregnancy all through.. Stay positive .. Good vibes to you ..

[Debrakay1704 in reply to TTC35_Dubai]

thank you. x

[gattonero]

you got this!! xx

[Debrakay1704 in reply to gattonero]

xxx

[Lifelongdream]

Please try and stay positive i know it must be so so hard because everything has been against you but think... happy mum....happy baby! Smile..youve done it! xx

[Debrakay1704 in reply to Lifelongdream]

I have been trying honest thank you. xx

[Hollibob]

I know what you mean...

Our first scan 6+2, when we got called in, I started crying, but all was ok.

After some spotting, we had a scan at 9+6...I was proved wrong again!

12w scan, I was worried as symptoms started disappearing at 11w, but all ok.

We’ve told our closest family and friends and are now 14+5, but I am still sooo scared. Feeling relatively normal which I’ve read is the bonus of second trimester, but it doesn’t help my questioning head!

We’ve booked a 16 week private scan which still feels like an age away on 8th May...I don’t think there is much else that we can do 🙁

[Debrakay1704 in reply to Hollibob]

Aw bless you, I think we all dream of it for so long it really is surreal, so happy for you!!!! Try to enjoy it together we must make more effort to do this. xx

[Hollibob in reply to Debrakay1704]

It’s so difficult to be chilled...we just go into protective mode don’t we x

[Caroliono4]

Hi Debrakay I really feel for you. I've had 4 rmcs and have just had my 7 week viability scan. Having had a loss after seeing a hb before Im still a bag of nerves though this time around it is donor eggs so we are a little more hopeful. I wish you ask the luck in the world and look forward to hearing your news xx

[Debrakay1704 in reply to Caroliono4]

wishing you all the luck as well and keeping everything crossed for you. xx

[Lifelongdream]

So true... i think all the trauma of actually getting a BFP you cant quite believe it so the nerves will remain there. I even thought that the other day... im so anxious all the time but that will probably never leave me!

[Debrakay1704 in reply to Lifelongdream]

it is like that, wish you all the best with your journey. x

[Hidden]

Wishing you the best for your 12 week scan, hope all goes well ❤️ I was very nervous before mine. I’m now 35 weeks and still worry now after this journey it’s hard not to. Xxx

[Debrakay1704 in reply to Hidden]

So glad to hear your good news thanks Jess x

[Hidden in reply to Debrakay1704]

Thank you. Hopefully you will be sharing happy news Wednesday ❤️❤️❤️ xoxo

[wemma83]

I’m in exactly the same position! Our 12 week scan is on Wednesday too, all was well at our 7 week (when we found out we’re having twins!) but still can’t shake the anxiety 😕 Wishing you lots of luck sweetheart 💕🙏🏻🤞🏼 xxx

[Debrakay1704 in reply to wemma83]

Aw you too, please let me know. will be thinking of you. xxxxxx

[Hidden]

Congratulations!!! I am sure it will go well. You are almost there....so close. Try and believe in this.

Ps. Could you DM me your clinic in Greece? I am planning my third cycle there and was looking for recommendations xx

[Debrakay1704 in reply to Hidden]

Have messaged you Anna, thank you not long now. xx

[Kempton]

I felt exactly the same with my ivf pregnancy. Everything was absolutely fine. It's so hard not to let horrible thoughts creep into your mind but I understand how you feel. Just remember you saw a heartbeat. It's more than likely that everything will be ok. Only a couple more days! You won't know what you were worried about!

Best of luck and keep us posted on how it all goes!

[Debrakay1704 in reply to Kempton]

thank you, one more sleep. xxx

[Klndmr]

It's absolutely normal to feel that way. Like you said we tend to remember more the negative memories and experiences. Hopefully after your next scan you will feel better and just enjoy it hun.

Happy and healthy 9 monthsssss 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗❤❤❤❤❤

[Debrakay1704 in reply to Klndmr]

thank you. xxxx

[ALLY81]

Congratulations and Good luck not that you need it im sure everything will be fine once you see for sure on the screen that its a real baby youll feel better xxx

[Debrakay1704 in reply to ALLY81]

thank you. xxxxx

[Music1]

I can completely relate. It's not been an easy journey for me, and I still struggle to convince myself everything is ok at 25wks. I absolutely hand on heart was convinced that I had a mmc before my 12wk scan. I cried myself to sleep, read loads of websites etc. We had a heartbeat at 7wks but was told we'd lost the other one. The 12wk scan left me absolutely gobsmacked. Everything was fine I just couldn't feel a thing - turns out I have an anterior placenta. When we've gone through so much it's so hard to think positive about things working, as we're so used to them going wrong I guess. Wishing you all the best for your scan. huge HUGE congrats. xx

[Debrakay1704 in reply to Music1]

Great news that you are 25weeks ❤️. Doing amazing. Hope you are a bit more relaxed now. But until that baby is in your arms I don’t think many of us are. Make sure you are taking care and enjoying it xx

[Music1 in reply to Debrakay1704]

Thanks, and you're absolutely right. I've a friend who said to me recently "hope you can relax now you've seen the 25wk scan is still ok". We paid privately for the scan as I was so worried. I sent her a text back saying just that... not until baby is in my arms and hopefully all is well. It's actually hard to enjoy pregnancy, more than I thought. I was the only one tearful in the waiting room when we went for the scan, whilst others were joyful, happy, purchasing teddies, photo frames you name it. I just wanted to make sure lil one was still ok. Wishing you all the best. Hoping the scan will really blow your mind. Mine has surpassed all expectations. Hugs and be thinking of you x

[Debrakay1704 in reply to Music1]

Don’t worry about anyone else, this is such a personal journey and because of what most of us have been through on this platform it does have an effect. You are doing amazing and just take care of you ❤️ xx