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Hi everyone,

I’m new here and I’m going crazy, loved reading a few posts and wanted to ask for some advice please

I was fortunate and lucky enough to have had a BFP and DS from my first IVF cycle in 2012

Since then I’ve had two failed ivf cycles and two failed Iui s

This is my third attempt and I’m eating myself up

I definitely don’t want to poas and will be waiting for beta on the 14th but starting yesterday (7dp3dt) I had AF like mild cramps that last for a few goes on and off, same thing through the night and this morning

Freaking out 😭

Please share your stories ladies

Zee

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Hi Zee, I had cramps and a little bleeding from about 9dp3dt on a cycle where got a bfp, so don’t panic! Next cycle was bfn and no cramps.

How are you feeling now? Just a few more days to go of the dreadful 2ww! Xx

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Zee87 in reply toShelleybean

Hi Shelley! Thank you for the reply that makes me feel better 💛

Yesterday 9dp3dt I had the tiniest spotting light brown and a spec on endometrin applicator (sorry for TmI)

Still cramping on an off today, it just feels very familiar 😭

Holding back from POAS beta is on the 14th

My boobs are still very sore and I know progesterone can do that grrrr

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Shelleybean in reply toZee87

Aargh it’s so hard! Really is enough to send anyone crazy 🤪

I really thought AF had arrived with mine too, so all is definitely not lost. The sore boobs certainly aren’t a bad sign either!

Not long to go now. Stay strong xx

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Zee87 in reply toShelleybean

So true

I feel for DH, he’s trying to be supportive but nothing seems to help me with this dreaded wait

Driving myself crazy and I can’t stop googling every tiny thing 😂

I swear only women who’ve been through this know and understand the pain

Praying every second 🙏🏼

Thanks Shelley!!

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Shelleybean in reply toZee87

Agree with that!

Good luck honey xx

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Pinkybaby

Keeping my fingers crossed for u. I'm in my 13dpt d3 embryo transfer. Got a bfn this morning. 😭

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Zee87 in reply toPinkybaby

Ohhh pink! I read that it can really take a while to show at home! When is your beta scheduled??

Fingers crossed for you!!

I’m having a bit more tinted discharge just hoping for the best and praying for patience 🙏🏼

Keep me updated on how you go!

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Pinkybaby in reply toZee87

My beta is next week I guess. Just take care.xx

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Zee87 in reply toPinkybaby

Thanks hun you too

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Zee87

Started pink/ red spotting

This is too much heart break

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Pinkybaby

Don't lose hope dear. Fingers crossed for you xx

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Zee87

Thanks Pink,

The spotting stopped but the cramps are unreal it feels exactly like AF :(

I decided to rip the bandaid off and went and did a beta test myself, I hope 11dp3dt is enough time to get a yes or a no.

I can’t handle waiting longer with the cramps

Two hours waiting feel like two hundred right now!

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Pinkybaby

Did you try d home test first? Wishing you well dearie xx

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Pinkybaby

Hi Zee, what's latest on your beta test? Longing to talk to you.xx

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Zee87 in reply toPinkybaby

Hi Pink no I didn’t try a home pregnancy test, they have never been my friend I hate the anticipation

I’m still shaking beta came back positive!! Cramps are still there on and off and I’m terrified but it’s positive and I’ll take that win for now!

I’m not telling anyone except for DH until I have a scan!

Thanks for the support ladies this process is nerve wrecking!

Wishing you well pink! Keep me posted hun

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Congratulations. Sometimes the pessarues can cause irritation. Ask your clinic about swapping to the back? Good luck with the rest of your journey xxx

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Pinkybaby

Congratulations dear xoxo

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Zee87 in reply toPinkybaby

Thanks hun!! Staying cautiously positive

Fingers crossed for you

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Pinkybaby

Noticed a foul smell from my vagina. I'm confused.

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Zee87

could it be from the endometrin? I haven’t had that but am always willing to attribute any symptom to pregnancy

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