Advice needed

[sophia88]

Is the first day of your period when you start spotting or is the first day when you have a flow.

Started to spot for the last 3 cycles is this normal.

[Lisaworthy1981]

I think it’s the day you have full flow xx

[Tugsgirl]

Full flow definitely xx

[Caza2009]

I was told full flow and spotting doesn’t count as day 1 xx

[Hidden]

Full flow! I always had this concern too incase I missed cycle day 1 x

[Becca21]

It's the day you get your full flow. It's usually normal to get spotting a day before or sometimes even 2 days. As long as you're experiencing it right before AF I don't think you have a reason to worry. It just happens during the fertile years. The intermediate spotting is however not a good sign... so keep a close watch for sure.

[AllWeNeedIsluv]

What's going on with you Sophia. Where are you in your journey hun. Hope your ok 😘💖

[sophia88 in reply to AllWeNeedIsluv]

Hi, im good. Hope your well.

For the last 3 cycles I’ve been spotting like 2 days before which is something new.

Apart from that still no luck after the miscarriage. X

[AllWeNeedIsluv in reply to sophia88]

Awwww hun. I don't know spotting is normal for some before a period. Not sure what it could be if it's just recently started. Have you spoke with your gp regards conceiving? Xx

[sophia88 in reply to AllWeNeedIsluv]

Nope I’ve not spoken to gp as I think they would say try Ivf again which we currently can’t afford. X

[AllWeNeedIsluv in reply to sophia88]

Have they not offered you tests or anything? Your gp can't suggest ivf they can refer you after relevant tests to fertilty clinic and they could help you with making a decision. But I'd defo say some tests is what you need before any thing just to see what is going on xx

[sophia88 in reply to AllWeNeedIsluv]

I shall ask them to refer me again. we’ve had a failed ivf an at the time they suggested we should give it another go.

[AllWeNeedIsluv in reply to sophia88]

Oh ok, have you ever had a lap or hysteroscopy hsg test? Xx

[sophia88 in reply to AllWeNeedIsluv]

Yes have had the one where you have the dye put in to see if tubes are blocked an tubes had no blockages.

We’ve had a few tests done an they all came clear an diagnosed us with unexplained fertility. X

[AllWeNeedIsluv in reply to sophia88]

Awwww hun. What a headache this is for you. Unexplained is such a stress. Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers hun. Hope something happens soon for yous really do

😘😘💖💖

[sophia88 in reply to AllWeNeedIsluv]

Aww thank you soo much. I hope your getting on well with your pregnancy. x

[AllWeNeedIsluv in reply to sophia88]

Bless ya. All is good so far hun another check up on Tuesday. Thanks 😘😘💝💝

[sophia88 in reply to AllWeNeedIsluv]

Aww that’s good too hear. Hope ur appointment goes well 😘