First Ivf journey

[Militarywife7]

Hi all,

I’m new to this forum and looking for support from others on the same journey.

I’m due to start my ivf journey as of next week and have my consultation is booked at the beginning of feb.

I would be interested in buddying with somebody at a similar stage.

I’m excited but extremely anxious about the whole situation.

Nat x

[Saya85]

Hi Nat

Welcome! You will find lots of support here and many ladies going through the same thing

We'll probably be doing our next cycle in march but many of us have been through several IVF cycles already

If you have any questions about the process /your fertility issues etc or just want some support and virtual hugs you'll find it here 🙂

If you look at the search function on the menu bar you can read through old posts where you may find most of your info already

Good luck with your journey x

[Stephj18]

Hi nat!

Welcome 🤗 wish you all the luck in the world to start your first round. It’s an exciting rollercoaster with ups and downs but there’s some amazing people on here that are always there for a shoulder to cry on when things get tough or just to rant ❤️ xx

[Hidden]

Hi exciting times ahead x this forum is wonderful and there are lots of support from everyone on here . I started my ivf journey 3 years ago and there have been highs and lows but the support from all the ladies on this forum got me through it x good luck in your wonderful journey that awaits you . All I say is be positive 👍

[Militarywife7]

Hi Ladies,

Thank you for making me feel welcome. I had my first emotional breakdown yesterday about the whole ttc journey. I heard news of a close family member becoming pregnant, and although I am happy for them part of me felt despair whilst wondering if it will ever actually happen for me. I guess its a normal part of the process. I've always wanted to push away negative thoughts or tears, but once I started crying and thinking about it I couldn't stop myself and ended up in a bad state of mind.

Can I ask for those who have went through multiple attempts of ivf how many tries you had each year? I'm aware that it will take a huge emotional toll, and I wondered if people jump straight back in after a failed attempt?

I hope one day we can all have our happy ending x

[DianeArnold Partner Nurse Fertility Network UK]

Hi Militarywife. Just wanted to add my good wishes for this cycle, and of course for success. Your clinic will look after you. I'm sure the ladies here will support you along the way. Thinking of you. Diane

[Misschalmers94]

Hi Natalie.

I have my first consultation next week too. My other half has been diagnosed with RE and myself having just had myself having just have my second round of surgery for endro.

I have a son from previous relationship.

My sister had her baby 6 weeks ago and yes it is very emotional. Give me a message if you fancying chatting. I may not be of much help as this is all frighteningly new to me also.

All the best. Xx

[Apples2665]

I can relate. I have gone through stages of excitement and utter terror, but am trying to stay positive. I start my first cycle this month on the 21st and am scared of the side effects as I already suffer badly with PMT. The clinic have been great with me though and have offered counselling, which incidentally my first session is also on the 21st. Emotionally it’s been difficult to get to this stage, but it’s exciting to know that we have another chance to try something new. It might not work, but we have to try. As cheesy as it sounds, it’s another chapter, it’s a new start and can lead to great things. Keep your chin up and trust the docs. Best of luck to you xxx

[Hidden]

Hey militarywife7 hello once again .

Please enjoy the journey you are about to start and stay positive x I tried for 8 year ofvtrying for a baby until I began ivf x I thought it would never happen. If I’d never gone through the IVF emotional journey I would not have my beautiful babies . It has been hard work and yes there are a lot of ups and downs but stay strong . Also I know it’s hard hearing of people having babies but I decided. Not to cry about their joy but be happy for them as it wasn’t their fault I couldn’t have a baby x yeah I did cry but I learnt to be happy for them and push on with my treatment . If you need any advice at all please message me . Good luck and please keep us posted 👍

[Hope25]

Hi, I am very new to the site and very early on in my TTC journey (if after 3 years you can still call it early) I am currently on medication but only have 3 months left before I have to look at other options. I think my consultant will recommend IVF. I was just wondering if anyone is about who is happy to talk about their experience - feel like im stood looking into a forest and and have no idea what to expect or which way I am supposed to be going