Super stressed

[Ajplus1]

I’m so stressed and at breaking point. My OH is still in hospital, it’s been a week now, and we still have no answers as why he’s so sick and why he’s not getting any better. They’re doing a biopsy today and bone scans and they want to do a bone marrow scrape. I’m really really struggling at the moment, especially going through our first ivf cycle but I know need to try and stay strong and keep my stress levels down.

Feeling very deflated 😔

[genten]

Aww I'm so sorry to hear that your other half is still in hospital. And with no idea what's going on must be worrying so i understand why you're stressed.

IVF or a partner in hospital on it's own is stressful.

I hope the biopsy, scans etc provide you both with answers as to what's going on.

I can't give any advice as what to do as I know I would be the same in your circumstances.

Always here anytime you need to chat.xxx

[Hidden in reply to genten]

I agree with genten. It must be so so hard for you. You know we are all here for you. Do you have family close by too? Sending you huge hugs hugs and I too really hope that you get answers and your oh home with you soon so you can focus on your baby dream xxx

[Ajplus1 in reply to Hidden]

Thank you xx

[Ajplus1 in reply to genten]

Thank you. Me too xx

[Masha111]

Couldnt have said it better myself than Genten and Camillage. i hope you have the support around you from close family and friends and that your OH is going to be ok. Xxx

[Ajplus1 in reply to Masha111]

Thank you xx

[Kari55]

Just wanted to say that I’m sorry about your husband being unwell. My husband got really ill earlier this year and it was very difficult. I hope he gets his diagnosis soon and gets better. Lots of love xx

[Ajplus1 in reply to Kari55]

Thank you ❤️

[Cinderella5]

Im really sorry to hear that your OH is still poorly and you're no furher forward with a diagnosis. I cant imagine how upsetting it all is plus having the IVF ontop. He is in the best place so hopefully you get some answers soon!xx

[Ajplus1 in reply to Cinderella5]

Thank you, so do we xx

[Sweets1]

Hope your OH gets well soon and they find what’s causing it. Just take each day as it comes with regards to your IVF, stay strong, good luck xxx

[Ajplus1 in reply to Sweets1]

Thank you xx

[Hidden]

This most be causing you so much stress, I can't even imagine. Like the other ladies have said make sure you get some support during this difficult time. I hope you get some answers and he starts to recover.

[Ajplus1 in reply to Hidden]

Thank you.