Hi all, we found out that our second cycle failed on Friday. I feel a bit less overwhelmed than last time but to be honest both myself and my husband are really struggling and yesterday and today have been so hard. I’m finding myself trying to sleep the day away and he’s just watching rubbish on tv. We have really supportive friends and family but neither of us can face the ordeal of socialising today. Is this normal. We want to jump straight back in as soon as the clinic allows but I’m not sure we are coping very well. Life’s all about being focussed on IVF and what if, planning for treatment etc. Money is tight as we are self funding and I feel like we’ve hit a wall. At the moment I think we both feel we just want to stick with each other as we don’t have to explain ourselves but normal life does have to carry on. I’m a teacher and I’ve got the rest of the week off but I’m already dreading normality and he’s got work tomorrow which I know he’s dreading too. I’m sorry for ramble but is this normal or should I be worrying?