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I just wanted to say a big thank you to all of you on here, without this group I don't think I would have coped at all well over the last few months.

Tomorrow, we fly off to Poland for our 3rd FET and we are very much hoping it is third time lucky for us.

In July, we had a chemical, my husband also lost his job. Life at that time could not have been much worse and I went through some really dark times, with the help of my husband, family and friends and all you lovely people on here we got through it. My husband has just started his new job and we have our transfer to look forward to.

For those of you that are in complete despair right now, you will get through it, there will be light and hope once more. A few months ago I never thought I'd hear myself say this, but it will happen.

Much love to you all, you are stronger then you think! Xxx

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What a difficult time you’ve had. So sorry for your chemical pregnancy, I had one it’s heartbreaking.Wishing you the best with your FET & hope this is your time 🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻✨✨🌈❤️ xoxo

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Thank you so much Jess, hope you are getting on okay too xxx

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Cinderella5

You've been through a really rough few months so Im so glad that you have felt supported through the forum, I know how much strength Ive gathered from being on here in crappy times!! Im glad to hear that you are feeling positive about your impending FET. Ive got everything crossed for you guys that this is your time! Keep us posted!xx

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Abaco in reply toCinderella5

Thank you so much! My fingers are crossed for you too! This group has helped me in so many ways, i would be lost without it. Xxx

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Georgie17

Wish you all the best with your FET

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Abaco in reply toGeorgie17

Thank you so much xxx

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Tugsgirl

Wishing you lots of luck for your fet

#thirdtimelucky 🤞🏻 xx

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Abaco in reply toTugsgirl

Thank you so much! All the very best to you too xxx

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honesuckle1

I am thinking of you and wishing you so much luck for this fet and sending lots of love and hugs xxxx

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Abaco in reply tohonesuckle1

Thank you so much, that means a lot! All the best to you too xxx

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AnnieAnnie

Your positivity is great! Hope all goes well in Poland for you. Wishing you lots of luck xx

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Abaco in reply toAnnieAnnie

Thank you so much! it took a long time to get that positivity back but not letting go of it yet, all the best to you too xxx

That's a lovely post to show life gets better. Wishing you all the best with your trip to Poland xx

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Abaco in reply to

Thank you, it certainly does and the darkness does lift eventually! All the best to you xxx

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Thank you xx

HUGE good luck, best best wishes and big hug... hope this is the time! :-) :-) xxx

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Abaco in reply to

Thank you so much for your kind words , we've not long arrived, looking forward to our first appointment tomorrow, hopefully that lining is the right thickness!🤞🙏 all the best to you xxx

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Justus1 in reply toAbaco

I’m in Poland too at present. Due for egg collection on Friday. Good luck tomorrow .

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Abaco in reply toJustus1

All the very best to you too! Are you in Katowice by any chance? X

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Justus1 in reply toAbaco

No in gydnia. Good luck. Hope everything went well today

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Abaco in reply toJustus1

Thank you, lining not optimum yet but this happened last time so our fingers are crossed for a better scan on Friday, all the best to you for Friday too xxx

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Justus1 in reply toAbaco

My lining has always taken ages to thicken too. Good luck x

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Abaco in reply toJustus1

Trying to throw everything at it to make it thicken!! Xxx

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Justus1 in reply toAbaco

Let me know if you have any tricks that work! Hopefully I’ll need the tricks again this time

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Abaco in reply toJustus1

Well I'm throwing just about everything at it! Legs up wall, Pom juice, Brazil nuts, tons of walking, we shall see what tomorrow bringsxxx

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Justus1 in reply toAbaco

Fingers cross for you. I haven’t heard about the legs on wall! Will have to give it a try c

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Abaco in reply toJustus1

Thank you, Meant to be good for blood flow! Xxx

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Dunla

Sorry to hear things have been so difficult for you but also delighted that things seem to have turned a corner for you. Wishing your husband luck in his new job and good luck as you head to Poland for your transfer xx

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Abaco in reply toDunla

Thank you so much for your kind words, first scan over and done with lining too thin, needs to build up more! Not too freaked out this happened last time too xxx

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Dunla in reply toAbaco

Grow lining, grow ! Keep us all posted xx

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Abaco in reply toDunla

Thank you so much, fingers are crossed! X

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Cinderella5 in reply toAbaco

Uuurgghhh damn lining! Hope you get to where you need to be.....everything crossed for you!xx

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Abaco

Thank you so much! Our bodies rarely play ball do they, so frustrating! X

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MrsAdzee

Good luck, hope all goes well and the lining thickens up nicely for you xx

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Abaco in reply toMrsAdzee

Thank you so much, our fingers are crossed, tomorrow cannot come quick enough now!!! Xxx

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MrsAdzee in reply toAbaco

The waiting is the worst!!! All will be good 🤞🏼xxx

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Abaco in reply toMrsAdzee

Thank you, really hope so xxx

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