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So the decision has been made! We’ve got a slightly altered medication plan, and have decided to have the scratch next month, meaning we will start our FET in early December (round 7🤦🏼‍♀️😬)!!

I’m very excited, but really emotional. These past few months have been really hard, and I’ve been struggling to put myself back together since the miscarriage, my heart aches all the time, and I’m just not myself, so I am hoping that going again will give me a focus and a ray of hope that we might get our Christmas miracle?!?!?!

A little woe is me there, so apologies!


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Yeyyy honey, glad that you've made the decision to move forward! Hop me those tweaks make all the difference!!🤞🤞 Big hugs lovely, you're doing great!!xx

Thank you lovely 😊 need to get my head back in the game! Xxx

I always feel better with a plan, helps me get my self together instead of just feeling stuck!xx

Yeah you’re right, a plan has definitely helped! Xxx

Sorry for your losses 😢

But wishing you the best with your next round & truly hope it’s the best Christmas present you could ask for! 😘✨🌈 xoxo

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Thank you! 🤞🏻🤞🏻xxx

Aw bless you. Well done for carrying on, I know how tough this journey is. Big hugs, wishing you lots of luck for xmas xx💕

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Aleelilook in reply to cryst4l

Thank you lovely, it is bloody exhausting! I hope you’re ok? Xx

Such good news. Here's to 7th time lucky for you xx

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Aleelilook in reply to Camillage

Thank you 😊xx

Yay. Great news to have a plan in place and it will certainly help provide some focus. Good luck for the best Christmas present ever xx

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Aleelilook in reply to Tugsgirl

Thank you sweets, yeah definitely need some focus! Xx


Sounds great that you have a plan, I often think of you as our paths went on very similar sad routes through the last cycle.

I have had similar feels to those you have expressed, so wanted to let you know you are not alone.

Good luck and fingers crossed that this next round is ‘the one’ xx

Thank you so much, I really appreciate your kind words x how are doing? Xx

I did my first injection to down reg last night, hoping to do my last FET transfer late November.

I have really struggled since having the miscarriage, not helped by my brother and wife falling pregnant a month later, delighted for them of course, but my goodness did it hurt. Not sure I am 100% ready to go again, but we have to use our embryo by December or pay for more storage. So back on the rollercoaster we go.

Let me know how you get on, fingers crossed for both of us xx

Wishing you lots of luck xxx

Wow good luck for December!! How exciting (and stressful) as we all know. Hope your get your miracle.

We are going again but will wait until January.

Here’s to 2019 xxx

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Aleelilook in reply to Missy_22

Thank you lovely, how are you getting on? I’ll be keeping everything crossed for you in January xx

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Missy_22 in reply to Aleelilook

Yes I’m ok, funeral Tuesday then we try and move forward with our lives. Never forgetting our little girls though xx

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Aleelilook in reply to Missy_22

Oh sending you strength for Tuesday sweets xxx

So pleased that you now have a plan.

A Christmas miracle would be just lovely, wishing you lots of luck x

Keeping everything crossed that this time is your time x

Thank you! Xx

No apology needed! You’re so brave. Wishing you all the luck in the world and hoping you get your Christmas miracle xx

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Aleelilook in reply to Dunla

Thank you! I don’t feel particularly brave, more mad I think!!!! I hope you’re well xxx

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Dunla in reply to Aleelilook

Well, I think you’re amazing ☺️

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