Having a hard time waiting for second scan....

[TRYING2016]

Hello ladies, as most of you know i had my first viability scan last week Thursday baby measuring small and no heartbeat, I’m having a hard time waiting for my second scan this upcoming Thursday. I feel so emotional and although it may have been early and i pray its good news on Thursday I can’t help but think of the negative.

Im trying so hard to stay positive but each day is going so slow 😔☹️😥.... sorry xxx

[Barbara1012]

Oh love am sorry you’re going through such a hard time. I hope and pray you get some good news on Thursday.

I am on my 2ww and is only day 6 today and I am slowly driving myself mad. I know it’s hard but you’ve got to stay positive and distract yourself in some way. All the best sweets xxx

[TRYING2016 in reply to Barbara1012]

Thank you, i hope you get your bfp you deserve it xxxx

[Barbara1012 in reply to TRYING2016]

Thank you lovely. Just wish all this was easier for all of us. Stay strong xx

[Hidden]

You poor thing - must be so so stressful. Hope times goes faster and it goes well for you guys. Xxx

[TRYING2016 in reply to Hidden]

It’s just not knowing whats going to happen, and i think its my fault I didn’t have hope ivf would work for me first time and when i saw the positive pregnancy test I didn’t think anything could go wrong x

[Hidden in reply to TRYING2016]

Don't blame yourself for anything. Waiting is the hardest thing ever as you have no control over it.

I will be thinking of you Thursday and hopefully all is well now that more time has passed.

Xxx

[TRYING2016 in reply to Hidden]

I really hope so xx

[Hidden in reply to TRYING2016]

The scan will hopefully give you some answers soon...

Xxx

[TRYING2016 in reply to Hidden]

Yes, you’re right i know i will be ok either way, i know a lot of women have gone through so much more....... i hope your ok, how is everything going for you x

[Hidden in reply to TRYING2016]

All ok with me. I will just keep praying all goes ok for you Thursday xxx

[TRYING2016 in reply to Hidden]

Thank you so much xxx

[Hidden in reply to TRYING2016]

Don't ever think this is your fault Hun. When you finally get pregnant you don't expect things to go wrong. I was told I'd never concieve naturally then did. I had a mmc before I even knew I was pregnant. Last year I fell pregnant again & was scared but felt I'd had my share of rotten luck. I went on to have another mmc. It's totally💩 but so many of us here just have to fight so hard. Thinking of you xx

[TRYING2016 in reply to Hidden]

Im so down and its not even confirmed and you have been through so much, i really hope everything changes for you....... it does really feel horrible x

[Autumnmoon]

Bless you it must be so hard hoping you get your wishes granted x

[TRYING2016 in reply to Autumnmoon]

I really wish 😞 thank you x

[Tugsgirl]

I’m sure many of us will be keeping everything crossed for you on Thursday 🤞🏻 xx

[TRYING2016 in reply to Tugsgirl]

Thank you so much, means a lot x

[Caza2009]

I’m sorry you’re feeling like this xxx hope Thursday comes quickly for you and you get some positive news xxx sending loads of love 💕

[TRYING2016 in reply to Caza2009]

Thank you so much, trying everything to stay positive xxx

[Novice_knitter]

Have just seen your post Hun, sorry you’re having such a tough week - not surprising at all. I so hope you’re Thursday scan goes well. Have you got some good distractions this week? Some pamper time planned? Xx

[TRYING2016 in reply to Novice_knitter]

Im trying my hardest to stay busy and focus on other things but i keep finding my way back in the bedroom to be alone, feel down at times but since i have tried keeping busy xx

[Novice_knitter in reply to TRYING2016]

I don’t blame you for wanting to disappear away to your bedroom! Well done on trying to stay busy, hope the next couple of days go quickly for you - good luck with the app & don’t forget to book a facial! 😉 xx

[TRYING2016 in reply to Novice_knitter]

Definitely im due one 😀have a lovely day ❤️ xxx

[Novice_knitter in reply to TRYING2016]

I'm checking up on you..... I've booked an acupuncture session - have you booked a facial yet?

[TRYING2016 in reply to Novice_knitter]

😊 i had my eyebrows waxed that was overdue too! 😅 haven’t booked a facial but i booked a head and shoulder massage for tomorrow, hope the day goes fast x

[Novice_knitter in reply to TRYING2016]

😂😂 nice!!

Head & shoulders massage sounds like just the ticket! Great way to pass the time xx

[TRYING2016 in reply to Novice_knitter]

Xx

[Devj]

Aaaw what a dreadful time for you, the waiting and not knowing is the worst thing about this journey. Time speeds up when you’re on holiday, a trip, Christmas or an event you’re really enjoying but anything on this journey is a painfully slow wait where 24 hours a day easily feels like double that time!

Really hope Thursday brings you good news, keeping everything crossed for you.

Try not to get too down, far easier said than done I know. Take care xxx

[TRYING2016 in reply to Devj]

Your right, its a horrible wait, i really hope so...im trying to stay positive and keep myself busy xx

[Core]

Wishing you all the luck in the world for tomorrow, hope all goes well for you xx

[TRYING2016 in reply to Core]

Thank you so much, i will update tomorrow, im so glad today is nearly over. No doubt today i wont get any sleep 😴 xx