HELP!

[Azoivf]

Im currently on holiday in portugal and all im doing is getting upset everytime i see someone that is pregnant or when i see little toddlers to the point im trying my best to move hotel.

How do i manage this? Anyone experienced this?

[Tugsgirl]

It really doesn’t sound like you’re having a good holiday 😕 xx

[genten]

Hi,

Bless you! It's so difficult.

I have had feelings like that and sometimes don't even want to go to parties etc. as everyone will be there with children and asking me where my kids are! But somehow I muster the strength from somewhere and manage to carry on even when I feel tearful.

Are you trying to move to an adult only hotel? I think if you can and if that will make you enjoy your holiday then go for it. xx

[Azoivf in reply to genten]

Yes, but sunshine are not playing ball at the moment and i still havent actually checked into the hotel. Have come to sit in a adult only hotel.

Have phoned them 4 times now, they said i have to give the hotel a chance aa they depend on brits money.x

[genten in reply to Azoivf]

I feel for you. I hope that they manage to change your hotel so you can enjoy and hopefully get to do some relaxing xx

[Lizzielizzielizzie]

I used to recite to myself little mantras to remind myself that “I don’t want their children, I want my own”, “there will be children at the end of this” and “things worth having don’t always come easy”. It did help me. And remember that some of those pregnant women might have been on a journey similar to ours.

Sitting in an adult only hotel is a good idea. Maybe some day trips round the local area too?

[Kyell2]

Oh no. So sorry your not having a good time. I try to go away when the kids are back at school but it’s impossible I avoid babies and toddlers.

It won’t be easy but you deserve this holiday. You’ll only enjoy it if you relax and think our time will come soon...and until then I’ll drink cocktails and eat lovely food with my OH.

I hope it gets easier x