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2 days after transfer!!!!

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Right ladies please excuse any rude language that maybe in here and I apologise already!!

We've all been through the IVF stage & we know what are dealing with from the start..

Well I'm now 2 days after FET, I actually shit you not, that I think this is actually the hardest part of this crazy ass journey. I mean I've been through this wait before and thought oh this time will be different who the hell was I trying to kid?? Myself obvisouly!!! Literally on countdown to test day which feels like a million foofin miles away... I swear if I hear just relax one more time or just don't think about!! I think I will cause physical harm to somebody... oh I haven't actually thought about relaxing or just not thinking about it but for anyone going through the 2WW or have been through it know you turn into some form of crazy emotional wreck surely I'm not the only one right?? Please tell I'm not ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚!! Well OTD is 26/7 I swore I wasn't going to test early at any point even at 10am today I said no way 6pm comes I've ordered x2 first response early pregnancy tests to do at 10dpt ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚.... Well back at work tomorrow or the hellhole as I prefer to call it that should hopefully keep my mind occupied for 9 hours... if you didn't even have a little bit of humour then you'd sure be a weeping foofin mess.. please keep your fingers crossed for me... ๐Ÿคž๐Ÿคž๐Ÿคž๐Ÿคž๐Ÿคž๐Ÿคช

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Haha the madness summed up very well!

No easy way to deal with the wait....2 weeks feels like 2 years.

Best of Luck with it - hope time speeds up to test day :)


Hi hope! I sympathise fully with all your thought on the 2ww. The actual procedure up to that point I actually felt ok about. I think I felt that I was actually doing something productive and trusted the clinic. The 2ww is a whole different ball game. I had to get my hubby to hide all our tests so I didnt test early. Do whatever you need to survive. Fingers crossed for you.xx

in reply to Blueberry16

When is your test day?? Good luck to you xx

in reply to hope84

Mine was in my anniversary last week. We got a bfp. I will be thinking of you and keeping everything crossed.xx

Hahaha people are so annoying ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚ I feel your pain.Got 7 more days to wait and not even talking to anyone as last thing I want is "advise" on what I should do now lol.Good luck xxx

in reply to Pauleenka86

Oh my 7 days I wish i had 7 days to wait I've got bloody 11 oh Jesus ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚ feels like a million years away... oh the do gooders with the non-helpful advice only joking i know they mean well really and don't really know what to say.. I wish you good luck and hope you have a speedy 7 days xx

Haha I know your pain !! Fingers crossed for you ๐Ÿคž๐Ÿ˜xxx

I could have written this myself.... leading up to i thought the 2ww will be fine....

Giving lots of ladies good advice on here to take their mind off it etc.... so wow wt a kick in the bloody teeth... all i think about each ans every minute of the day is otd.... and i literally want to sleep all way to the 24th july.... good luck my dear xxxx

I completely agree

The 2ww wait is the hardest part

Good luck! Hope this is your time xx

Thatโ€™s the best, honest and funniest account of the 2ww Iโ€™ve ever read. Roll on 26/7. All the best xx I start burselin on 25 - so have it all to come, your post made me giggle. Take care xx

in reply to Barbara1012

Haha thank you fingers crossed for you wishing you lots of good luck xxx

This is so accurate! I'm currently 10dp5dt and wanted to test since 3dp I opened the cupboard in the bathroom on day 3 and a pregnancy test fell out on me... after that it's all I can think of. I tested last year without my husband and was bfp but sadley ectopic and my husband was distraut that he wasn't there the moment I did the positive test, so there's no way I can do it without him this time and he's adamant were not doing it earlier than Thursday...im sure it'll go fairly quick ๐Ÿ˜ฃ๐Ÿ’‰๐Ÿ’ค lol

in reply to 4ema4

Good luck to you... I swore I wouldn't test early and I've bought more tests today lol... hoarding them in the bathroom cabinet ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚.. Fingers crossed for you xx

It really does drive you crazy! It is impossible to relax as you need the distraction to stop thinking about it 24/7. Work is good at that even though it's the last place you want to be. I have everything crossed and hope you get that BFP xx

๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚donโ€™t hold back girl๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

in reply to Elynn

I literally have no filter ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚...

Same boat...same test day from FET! I wish I hadnโ€™t told anyone as all Iโ€™ve had every day is โ€œhow you feelingโ€ ๐Ÿ™„ I know theyโ€™re just being nice but am I gonna get this for every single bloody day ffs! Iโ€™ve actually ended up telling them I got my test day wrong itโ€™s 29th but only so they donโ€™t hound the life out of me on 26th! Mean arenโ€™t i! I booked until Thursday off work to relax and Iโ€™m bored out my mind. Donโ€™t get me wrong Iโ€™m enjoying being away from work but there is far too much time to think! Been having period pains too which doesnโ€™t help my emotional and psychotic state of mind! Roll on the 26th hey!! Good luck fingers crossed for us!! Xx

I've been back to work today so kept me focused on other things. I haven't told anyone this time apart from my boss &close work friend. Because I don't want to be works gossip and be hounded all the time it's a foofin pain in the ass. I literally just want to hibinate until my test day. I've also had horrendous lower backache and cramps I'm now becoming obsessed on loo roll watch after I've been ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜.. I seriously want this wait over... my big fat 2 week wait continues # Day 3 fingers crossed for you xx

I know what you mean about checking the loo roll !! Hope this wait goes quick for you. Itโ€™s hard not to read into every pain or discomfort isnโ€™t it! Hopefully Iโ€™ll see a BFP post from you!x

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