Transfer day 4BB

[Xmishell37]

Just had my third and final transfer of IVF round 1 (no frosties left) and just want to say good luck to all those in the same position right now and sending you lots of good vibes and sanity for the two week wait 😊 I'm mentally prepared for starting round 2 in summer and am making all my summer plans around this (July/Aug should be free of any transfers for me as I'll likely get OHSS), and although I've had zero optimism about this transfer working up until now, I'm feeling quietly optimistic today, Ive put my life on hold for the last few months while dealing with early miscarriages but am booking a city break with my mum for 5 days then have a 4 day break with my partner and dog after that, so just going to enjoy my time off work and hopefully not drive myself insane by early testing and symptoms spotting 🙃😂🤞🏼 xx

[JA-fnuk Partner Nurse Fertility Network UK]

Just wanted to say have a great time with your mum then your break with your partner and dog .Good luck with your return to treatment in the summer - all rested - refreshed and relaxed

Take care of yourself

Janet-Partner

[Xmishell37 in reply to JA-fnuk]

Thank you ❣️😊 I feel more relaxed this time around than the previous two but experience probably plays a part in that 🙃 xx

[Natasha2012]

we are in a similar position , I am having my final third transfer in a couple of weeks then I’m back to the drawing board . Also nearly 38 .. you aren’t alone and feel free to pm me xxx

[Xmishell37 in reply to Natasha2012]

Thank you ❣️ it's been one hellish journey so far, are u doing IVF on NHS too? Xx

[Natasha2012]

nope I’m private . I have already resigned myself to it not working for us even though everyone says it takes 3/4 tries . I’m definitely not the same person I was going into this xxx

[Xmishell37 in reply to Natasha2012]

Yep I feel this 👐🏼 completely lost my spark along the way and isolated myself from everyone for a long time, I feel like I'm starting to come out the other side though and as much as I'd love kids with my partner, I'm taking more of a 'what will be will be' attitude (although I do still have some awful days where I feel the complete opposite of this) it's a crazy mental journey of the biggest emotional torture and I believe only those who have been through it know the pain and understand ❣️ my friend form work paid £10k for a 3 round package, done 1 egg retrieval and 1 transfer and she is due her baby girl in a few weeks...sometimes it really does only take one go xx

[CardiGrey]

Good luck ❤️ x

[Xmishell37 in reply to CardiGrey]

Thank you ❣️😌 xx

[Hopeful_88]

Wishing you lots of luck and glad you are feeling quietly optimistic 🤞❤️ enjoy your breaks! It's such a hard journey we need to try and take the small joys we can get. X

[Xmishell37 in reply to Hopeful_88]

Thank you ❣️ it is incredibly tough so I've decided I'm going to find a better balance between living life while doing IVF! Xx

[Glaedy]

Good luck! I will keep my fingers crossed for you either for your BFP or 2nd round!

[Xmishell37 in reply to Glaedy]

Thanks ❣️ although I was feeling slightly optimistic today I'm still more optimistic about round 2 being the one! But time will tell! Xx