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Sadly a miscarriage

So round 6 has resulted in a miscarriage 😞 so I will stop the meds now and have to wait for it to begin. My husband and I are gutted 😞 xx

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I am so sorry to read this.....I was praying for a miracle for you guys.....

Xxx

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Thank you lovely xxx

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So sorry to hear this. There’s not really anything anyone can say but you’re not alone and you will be ok. Just take time to look after yourself x

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Thank you so much xxx

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Awww hun, I'm so very sorry to read this! Life is shitty & so cruel. Massive hugs to you and hubby, thinking of you both!😘xx

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It really is! I’m pretty scared of actually miscarrying as well, it’s never fucking easy! Xx

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😢😘xxx

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So so sorry to read that... it will happen for you .. don’t give up ❤️

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I’m so so sorry! Sending you loads of love 💕 xx

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Thank you so much xx

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I’m so very very sorry. Been thinking of you all day xxxx

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Thank you xxx

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I’m so so sorry. I was hoping for a miracle for you, as you so deserved it. Sending love and hugs to you both xxx

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So sorry to read this, I know how it feels and it really is so cruel!! 💔 sending you luv & strength for the days ahead!! xx

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Thank you xxx

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Oh no. This is such a bitter fight for you... really want a happy ending for you. Take care, sending hugs 😞💕

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Thank you lovely xx

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Ahhh so sorry to hear this sad news... what i do know is this journey can be so cruel... but please take care of yourself xxx

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Thank you xx

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I’m so very sorry love! Thinking of you; take good care of yourselves xx

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I’m sorry. I’ve been really hoping that things would be ok. An understatement but life can be so sh#t. I’m heartbroken for you. xx

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Thank you, it really can 😞 xxx

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I'm so sorry to hear this . Sending you a big hug.

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Big hugs, horrible news! Take plenty time and I'll be thinking of you both x

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I'm sorry to read this 😢 Thinking of you 💕 Xx

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So very sorry to hear this. Was thinking of you today and wondering how you are. It’s devastating new, I’m so sorry you have to go through this. Sending so much love x

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Thank you so much xxx

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Oh I’m so sorry xx

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Oh no sweetie I’m so sorry. Truly devastated for you xoxo

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I’m so sorry 😢 praying for your strength!! You will be ok, I promise. Take time to heal and be kind to yourselves. So tough!! I’ve had 5 miscarriages and 1 forced termination due to abnormality so I understand fully but you will get through it and come out the other end stronger. Please don’t lose hope. I’m pregnant now after 6 losses xxx

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Oh god how have you coped? I just feel on number two that I’ve reached a new low 💔 however I also know it’s really raw at the mo😞 do you mind me asking if you had any tests done? I’m really scared of having to miscarry naturally, with my first it was a missed miscarriage and I opted for a d&c but I presume I’m not far enough along with this one. You have brought me a glimmer of hope through this awful time so thank you, and I wish you all the luck for your pregnancy xxx

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It is very fresh and raw and devastating but trust me when I say you will be ok and it will get easier, ultimately we want to have a baby so this powerful strength takes hold and we crack on!! At this early stage plz don’t worry, it will feel like a normal period, I had 3 consecutive early miscarriages and they bleed out easily. I’ve also had 3 d&c at 8 weeks, 7 and 14 weeks. 2 miscarriages is cruel and painful but also ridiculously common, still to this day so many women suffer in silence. My friend had 4 after having her daughter and then had her baby boy naturally after all the losses. It gets you down and it’s all consuming but most of the time it’s the body eliminating abnormal embryos. My first missed miscarriage was on the day of a long haul flight (total shock) I found out 3 yrs 3 whole years later that I have Factor v Leiden a blood clotting condition which being in the first trimester and flying with all that radiation and air pressure the poor baby didn’t stand a chance. GP’s are clueless about the risks in flying but it’s the first thing my Consultant warmed me about. The second missed miscarriage I had tested and was abnormal (ended at 7 week). My third baby girl had a nuchal of 6.4mm and I was advised to terminate as prognosis v poor and baby likely to die preterm and there was no way I could go through labour and face that trauma. More sadness followed but it’s hard to say what exactly caused all the miscarriages, wasn’t just that I wasn’t given Clexane in time but a lot of the chemical pregnancies and early miscarriages were abnormal embryos. My husband and I were on a mission to have a baby, felt like it was the end of the world for a short time but then made sure we looked after each other, had fun, date nights and then cracked on. I would advise to get screened for all blood clotting conditions, give yourself time and I know you’ll be successful. Never lose hope!! Nothing ventured nothing gained. Even my Clinic told me to give up but we persevered and currently 16.5 weeks pregnant 🙏🏼🤞🏼Xxx

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I’m sorry this is so painful to read. We are all here for you. I’m lost for words but I understand how your feeling right now xxxxx

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Thank you so much, I’m always blown away by everyone’s support here xxxx

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Oh I am so sorry to hear this lovely I have been thinking about you today xx look after yourself xxx

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Thank you lovely xxx

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Aw hun, I am so sorry. 😓This whole process can be so cruel. I hope you find the strength to move forward when you are ready to. I also hope the next few days go ok for you as can be. Sending you hugs. 💕xx

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Thank you so much, it really is so cruel 😞💔💕xx

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So sad to be reading this. Stay the strong fighter that you are. 💛 And above all take it easy on yourselves xxx

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Will do lovely, thank you xxx

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I’m so sorry to hear this, big hug and lots of love xx

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Thank you xxx

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Oh no. I am so very sorry to read this. Big hugs hugs to you. Xxx

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Big hugs to you and hubby. 🙏xx

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So very sorry to hear this. I am sure that you are going through areally tough time dear! I know how it feels to go through the pain of miscarriage dear. I have been trying to conceive for the past 7 years. The only thing that you to get hold of is the hope. Just do not give up hope and look for a clinic that can deal with all your issues. Was thinking of you today and wondering how you are. It’s devastating new, I’m so sorry you have to go through this. Sending so much love

I am sure that you will soon have a good news to share!

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Hi Aleelilook. Just read this, and so sorry this is happening to you both. If I can help by answering any questions at all, on here or privately, then ask away. Try not to be too scared, you will be looked after. Thinking of you and sending gentle hugs. Diane xx

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Thank you Diane 😢😞xxx

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Life can be so unfair sometimes. I'm so sorry to read your sad sad news. Look after yourself and take some time for the two of you xxxx

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Thank you so much xxx

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I am so so sorry for u x

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So sorry for you. Look after yourself. Xxxxxxx

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😢 so sorry to read this. Thinking of you x x

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So very sorry. Sending love 💗

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So sorry for your loss- wishing you much love and peace during this truly horrendous time xxxx

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It's very sad news .... But don't loose hope dear .... Try your best and wait for miracle....

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I'm really sorry to hear this. Sending you big hugs xxx

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I'm so sorry to hear this . I had a miscarriage after my second round and I was a mess . My husband brought me an adult colouring book which helped focus on something else . I recommend them xx

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Ah thank you I’m so glad it helped, I find art very therapeutic. I have created a collections of paintings inspired by this god awful journey, it’s just so hard at times to even do the things that help if that makes sense?! Xxx

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I want you to know how sorry I am for you. I know your heart must feel completely broken. Stay positive and strong. X

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Thank you it means so much to me and my husband the support that is shown, it really does xxx

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So sorry lovely, was hoping you would have received good news. Thinking of you xxx

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I'm sorry for your loss. As a husband I went through so much heartache over the long years of IVF treatment, of course my wife suffered even more as it was her body battered and bruised. Looking back I think we held each other up. Hold onto each other, and don't give up on hope, however dark and hopeless it all seems.

xx

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Thank you so much xx

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So sorry me and my partner had one last month a silent one you will get through it. X

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Oh god I’m sorry, yes we had a missed miscarriage last year and it was such a shock, I hope you are holding up ok xx

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I’m so sorry to read this, there’s nothing I can say that’ll make it easier but take time and look after each other xx

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Thank you xxx

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I'm so sorry :( xxx

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I’m so sorry to read this 😔

I had a bleed yesterday and a scan today showed no gestational sac, so waiting blood results, but we are likely to be going the same way.

It is just heartbreaking xx

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Oh I’m so sorry, it truly is, I’ll be thinking of you xxxx

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Likewise my lovely. Happy to talk if you need to xx

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So very sorry to hear this. Thinking of you.xx

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I am so sorry to hear this. It’s so hard and feels so hard to deal with. Take care of yourself and take time to heal xx

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I’m am so so sorry to read this. Sending love and hugs to you and your husband. Take care of each other xxx

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I’m so sorry to read this. Sending hugs 😞 xx

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Hello dear. This is such a sad news. I feel so sad for you guys. My heart goes out to you. But do not lose hope. This is not the end of the journey. I am sure things will turn around for you. Love and prayers. Stay strong.

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I’m so sorry to hear this. Sending you lots of love. Take good care of each other xx

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So, so sorry to hear this Aleelilook xxx

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So sorry to read this. Thinking of you xx

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Oh no. I’m so gutted for you. 😢

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Thank you lovely xxx

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