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Yesterday was our 12 week scan unfortunately it wasn't good news there was no hearteat and baby was only measuring 8 weeks both devastated really thought this was it.

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I’m so sorry, no words can help, it’s just so cruel, sending u love xxx

So sorry. I cannot imagine how you are feeling.....

Sending love.

X

I'm so sorry. X

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Niki_B

Awww im so very sorry kellyoke1 I cannot imagine how your feeling 😢 sending you much love xxxx

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destiny121

Im so so sorry for what your going through... sending my love xx

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E_05

I’m so sorry, there are no words xx

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elle80

Very sorry to hear your news. Love to you and your partner xx

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Sarah_S

So sad for you, what a terrible time for you. Big hugs xxx

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Leo2017

I’m so sorry to read this, we not long ago went through the same so I know your heartbreak!! 😢 sending you luv & strength!! xx

I’m so so sorry. 😢

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Kyell2

This is awful news, I’m so sorry😔. Sending hugs x

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lianm8

I’m so sorry. Thinking of you xx

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Gillyc1

I’m so so sorry. Thinking of you all xxx

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Jenjen84

So so sorry xxx

Im so sorry to hear your news. xoxo

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Penders

I'm so sorry. Big hugs xxx

So sorry to hear your sad news x

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Shivvyboom79

So sorry to hear your sad news.

Thinking of you xxx

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Emmad781

This is so sad to read sorry this has happened

Sending you love and strength x

I’m so so sorry to hear this. I can only imagine how devastated you must be feeling. Xx

Hugs hun Xxx

Im sorry to hear this, it’s awful I was 12 weeks and scan showed stopped at 6 weeks, Didn’t expect it at all. Sending hugs x

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Jmaw

Aww sooo sorry honey. Sending love your way xxx

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Hope85

I’m so so sorry xx

I'm so sorry Kelly, this is heart breaking to read. Thinking of you xx

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Michael30

So sorry lovely! That is simply heartbreaking.. sending you lots of hugs and best wishes xxxx

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Cinderella5

So devastating! Thinking of you both!xx

Sending u love xx

So very sorry. Sending love 💗

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Autumnmoon

So sorry x

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Aleelilook

I’m so sorry, there are no words, you’re in my thoughts xxxxx

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Faithful06

I’m so very sorry 😢😢

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Orla9298

I’m so, so sorry, that is heartbreaking. Sending lots of love xxx

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Dreamingofbaby

So sorry for this news. It def is heartbreaking. Take good carexx

I am so so sorry Kellyoke1. There is nothing that anyone can say. I hope you heal and have lots of love around you xxx

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jengi

Darling, I'm so so so sorry for your loss. I wish I had some words to ease your pain. Big hugs. Xx

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vic77

Oh I am so so sorry..this happened to us in April. .there are no words...gold each other tight for the difficult time ahead...here if you want to ask anything much love xxxx

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Flimzee

I am so sorry to hear this. Thinking of you and sending love and strength xxx

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Missy_22

I’m so sorry. I know how your feeling such shock. I’m so sorry xxxx

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kellyoke1

Thank you everyone for your kind words they mean alot we are both heartbroken but I no we will be ok. We have 3 frozen still so we will try again in a few months.

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Mogwai_2

I am so sorry for your loss. We had the same thing happen, albeit the scan was at 9 weeks and the baby measured 7.5 weeks.

In the hope it gives you some hope, we too had frozen embryos left and had 2 transferred on my first natural cycle post miscarriage. I am now 6 months pregnant.

It is brutal, and take time to grieve. However, hopefully in time you can take hope from this and you have embryos in reserve. Sadly when it gets to this stage of IVF it is a total lottery which one will be the one.

Be kind to yourselves, x

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precioce

So very sorry to hear this. Have had this heart breaking experience too unfortunately and feel for you both. Take care of each other.xx

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kellyoke1

Thank you to everyone for your kind words they are comforting and appreciated. X

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Elynn

So sorry ......such a heartbreaker. Huge hugs.

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Anya80

My hart goes to you and im really sorry for your loss😪couple months ago ive been in exact situation as you ive lost my baby and i totally feel your pain. Noone can help you at the moment and you need to allow yourself the time you need . They said that time will help... perhaps there is something in it, after some time ive tired move on, I’m moving on and I’m planning for future but my pain is still there and i doubt it can be eased soon. I’m now in June and this would’ve been my due month, this month I do have my next birthday next wedding anniversary and I won’t celebrate them deeply, this is my next month of grieve for my baby who never would be forgotten by me, my hart fell apart back oct/nov time and never be the same...but im now accepting that and that I’m different person.

You rest darling and give yourself time for grieve, i hope you get better soon and can move on with your life when ready. Lots of cuddle and love to you both💗

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