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FET tomorrow - So scared πŸ˜”

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So after 8 months of what seems like the longest protocol I have been on with my first ever ivf cycle, I am finally going in for my frozen transfer tomorrow morning. I am having 2 blasts put back in. I have suffered so much physical pain on this journey (still in pain as I write this post) that I don't think I can do this again if it doesnt work. It has taken its toll on me and pretty much left me what feels like I am here as physically but mentally paraylsed as it has affected almost every aspect of my life with the horrendous endometriosis pain I have endured. I am however, greatful that I have got this far and kept on fighting on this journey to get to transfer. I will have to wait 10 days for a hcg test to see the result. The Dr said not to do a pregnancy test at home. I know these few weeks are going to be really hard. I am so so scared for tomorrow, the anxiety of having more pain after transfer and/or the horrific bleeding that I may get in the process which will kick start everything again. πŸ˜“. I must try and stay strong I know.

Thank you for your support on this journey. If anybody has some good tips or advice for me for post transfer, please do say.

Cyrstal x

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E_05

Wishing you lots of luck for transfer, it’s okay to be scared but try to take one day at a time I think sometimes thinking about the whole tww is very daunting. Remember we’re all here for support x

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cryst4lβ€’ in reply toE_05

Thabk you so much e05. This journey makes us learn so much. Hope you are well x

Good luck dearie wishing u d very best

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Thank you Abies x

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Charming81

Good luck for your transfer! Wishing you the very best

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cryst4lβ€’ in reply toCharming81

Thank you charming 81 x

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Gingergirl17

wishing you all the luck xx

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cryst4lβ€’ in reply toGingergirl17

Thanks gingergirl. Hope your 2ww is going well xx

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Cinderella5

Awww it sounds like you are going through hell! No tips apart from try to relax....I know easier said than done. Keep hydrated and don't do anything strenuous afterwards. Good luck.xxx

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cryst4l

Thanks a lot Cinderella. It has been the most difficult things I have ever been through. Thanks for the tips. Hope you are well xxx

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HPLondon

Good luck!! Xx

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cryst4l

Thank you xx

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Tugsgirl

Wishing you lots of luck and magic tomorrow xx

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cryst4lβ€’ in reply toTugsgirl

Thanks a lot Vicky xx

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Minchoo

I wish you the best of luck sweetheart. My advice is ensure you eat the correct supplements. Do not stress. Relax. Do your daily duties but not to overly exert yourself. Endo sucks and it’s a horrific journey. I pray your little embies stick and all this pain and heart ache will be worth it!! Wishing you all the best Hun! Xx 😘

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cryst4lβ€’ in reply toMinchoo

Thanks hun. I know you know how it feels with this horrid condition. Hope you are ok. Thank you for your well wishes and lovely words. We will fight this xxx

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Minchooβ€’ in reply tocryst4l

Yes lovely we will. You have gone through so much and sometimes I feel we are pushed to our core, but only to have a beautiful and positive outcome as we endured so much! Lots and lots of baby dust - I will be keeping you in my thoughts. Best of luck and if you need me I am a message away. X

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cryst4lβ€’ in reply toMinchoo

Thank you so much lovely. I hope your pain has subsided now. Yoy dont realise how much fighting and willpower is required for some of us on this journey. I am trying to relax about tomorrow and must try and take moment as it comes xx

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Autumnmoon

Just hoping all goes well with transfer and you do not suffer too much pain or distress wishing you all the best in the 2ww it is hard but try to have some nice experiences if possible while you wait all the best anyway x

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cryst4lβ€’ in reply toAutumnmoon

Thank you Autumnmoon. I am having sedation when transferring as Dr feels it would be better for me so at least I wont be in distress whilst they do it. Thank you for your well wishes xx

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XxjustmexX

Good luck for your transfer tomorrow am also having my fet tomz 😊 xx

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cryst4lβ€’ in reply toXxjustmexX

Aw thank you and good luck to you as well. Xx

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