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And because today wasn’t bad enough, apparently... 😢

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Went home after upsetting second scan rather than head to work... and what have just just been greeted with?... my neighbours parking up right outside our house, freshly arriving back from hospital with their brand new baby. I kid you not.

You couldn’t make it up. Just when you feel ole you can’t feel worse, you’re reminded that you can. This is so cruel 😢😢😢😢 xxx

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destiny121

Ohh what a crappy day you’ve had.... i get annoyed just seeing women pushing their prams on a hot sunny day without a care in the world. Not sure how id feel with whats happened with you today..... so happy for them but sad for you. Just remember that you want your own baby and nobody elses so dont worry about them hun.... and that you are doing all what you can and just believe that it will be your time soon.... so congratulate them( if you speak to one another) and just believe that it will happen for you and stay positive.

On another note i had my tube removed end of march becoz of that horrible fluid... so once gone should be able to increase your chances.... good luck my love xxx

Just sending u huge hugs xx

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Wishfully

🙁 do you have anyone at home with you to give you a cuddle? There was a lady on here who told us about a technique she’d learned, to help her cope with situations like this. She talked about replacing upsetting, negative thoughts with positive ones... so she’d say “that’ll be me soon” when she saw other pregnant ladies. It completely transformed her outlook and made her feel happy and grateful in situations that would cause such anguish before. Sending you big virtual hugs xx

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Mifkipi in reply to Wishfully

This is what I do to try to get through every pregnancy news! Best of luck to all of us here xx

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Bestbuddies1975

Sometimes deprivation builds many negative traits. This does not mean that all these traits are harmful. They are naturally existing. A woman is always seeking for completion through motherhood. If you felt low after looking at your neighbors then it's not something to feel bad. You wanted to experience the same. Unfortunately the fate was not on your side. I hope that soon you have the best news for you too.

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