So had a private gender scan today!...and......

[Oakey80]

It's a boy!!! 💙

Just wanted to update you all as I know a lot of you have supported me from the start 😊...

I'm now 16wks2d and things are starting to feel real....its taken me weeks to feel "normal (ish)" as ivf made me feel like a pregnancy fraud (which i wasnt expecting)...but now only 5.5mths to go and counting!!

Much love to u all wherever u are on your journey ❤

PS: I hope people don't mind me posting xxx

[Tugsgirl]

That’s lovely for you xx

[Oakey80 in reply to Tugsgirl]

Aw thanks Vicky. I really wasn't sure whether to post or not, but then I thought so many lovely people on this site have given me so much support this year...I didn't want to drift off never to be heard of again....I've kept my posts to the absolute minimum but I thought lots of folk might be wondering what's become of me....I would say, I hope you're ok but I can't imagine you are? So i'll say, I hope things get better and work out in the future xxx

[Tugsgirl in reply to Oakey80]

It’s safe to say I’ve been better but thank you. I’m genuinely pleased for you xx

[Laura3101]

Fantastic news!! Congratulations xx

[Hidden]

Lovely news 💙 We decided to wait and have a surprise xx

[Oakey80 in reply to Hidden]

It's safe to say ur a better person than me in that respect...luckily me and the dh agreed on this one. We just couldn't wait a second later than necessary lol! xxx

[Hidden in reply to Oakey80]

Ha ha most think we are mad, but half way now so not long to go. Enjoy all the boy shopping you can do 💙

[Oakey80 in reply to Hidden]

We made a bit of a start on the shopping today...poor credit card haha! xx

[E_05]

That's lovely news, congratulations xx

[Hidden]

Aw lovely 👶🏻💙 xx

[Lamorna80]

We need the positive posts too, thanks for sharing & good luck with the rest of your pregnancy 👍👍

[7AVA]

Congratulations! Xx

[Hidden]

Congratulations 💙 xx

[katya38]

Excellent! Congratulations xx

[Amanda86]

Lovely news. Congratulations 🙂 Xxx 💙

[Hidden]

Congratulations x

[Hidden]

That's lovely news hun xxx

[Lou9]

A beautiful boy! How lovely. Thanks for sharing your news. Xx

[C_L_A_I_R_E]

Congratulations! 👶🏻🍼💙

[Sherry07]

Excellent 👏🏻👌 I do love reading good news 🌹

[N_M_10]

Congratulations! How exciting 😀 xx

[Oakey80]

Thanks for ur messages guys....its been a torturous road and the worry never quite goes away (20wk scan soon eek!)....but today I've never felt so happy and elated in my whole life! Glad I got to share the news with all of you (we haven't told anyone else yet...tonight it's our secret!) Xxx

[AllWeNeedIsluv]

Congratulations hun. Such lovely news 💗🤗😘

[Hormomalmess]

This is great news. We have a private scan tomorrow to see if we are 💙or 💖.

Congratulations on your boy xxx

[Oakey80 in reply to Hormomalmess]

Oh lovely! Ru going to let us all know?! Xx

[Hormomalmess in reply to Oakey80]

Of course!! Xx

[Cinderella5]

I'm do pleased for you!! A beautiful baby boy!!👍 Huge congratulations!!xx

[sanj76]

Awesome news Oakley, wishing you all the best in your continued journey

[Leesara]

Congratulations lovely news

Thanks for sharing oxo

[stephanienissim]

Congrats xxx

[Sunshine09]

Congratulations this is amazing and gives a lot of hope to us, bet you can't wait to meet your handsome boy 💙🌈💋💋

[Oakey80 in reply to Sunshine09]

We had a 3d scan yesterday too and saw his little face properly for the first time...so cute! xxx

[Sunshine09 in reply to Oakey80]

💙🌈💋

[Strawb86]

Great news oakey 😁❤️ Xx

[London7]

Congratulations!!! We are having a little girl. It does make it feel more real, doesn't it? Although I'm now terrified thinking of the 20-week scan. Does the worry ever go away??! Xx

[Oakey80 in reply to London7]

Aw that's lovely!! 💕 I'm terrified for the 20wk too...got to wait til 19/10 🙈...I get incredibly nervous before any scan incase something bad crops up. I don't think that feeling will ever go away...even when he's born! You just get used to the anxiety don't you? But some weeks it's exhausting! xxx

[Daxi16]

Congratulations 💙

[hannahi]

Congratulations - great to hear all going well for you xx