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What are my chances??? Am I being selfish???

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Hi everyone. I’m 45 an have two children naturally. There’s 25 years between them (different relationships). My 4 year old is desperate for a sibling nearer his age. IVF was the only option for my husband and I because my egg reserve was almost nonexistent. I’ve just had 2 ending in miscarriage within 4 month and now (3rd time) digital test says ‘not pregnant’. It’s our last chance this time, there’s no eggs left and no money either as it’s cost us thousands. Granted I took the test 2 days early because I couldn’t wait, but surely it would have shown. What are my chances, any ideas? I think I need either reassurance or someone to tell me to make do with what I’ve got and stop being selfish. I don’t know x

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How far past your transfer are you and was it 3 or 5 day? Xx

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My transfer was 2nd May and the embryos (2 of them) were 5 days old x

You really can’t say until OTD. Don’t stop with any meds and good luck for the next two days waiting. 🤞🏻

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Thanks I’m keeping everything crossed x

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