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I’m sorry everyone.

There was absolutely nothing left on the scan.

I just want to cry today, and let it sink in

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I’m so sorry to hear this. I know how heart breaking it is. Make sure you rest up and take the time to grieve xx

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Cinderella5

So sorry to hear this. Look after yourselves.xxx

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Em2405

Heartbroken for you. So sorry, take care and be kind to yourself. Xx

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Gillyc1

I’m so so sorry my love. Sending my love to you and your OH xx

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elle80

Really sorry to hear this Kathryn. Sending you all my love and hugs xxxxx

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Kathryn1984

I’d really like to talk to some other ladies that have been through this. Is there any positive. Will I feel better? How will I cope?

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AllWeNeedIsluv in reply toKathryn1984

I'll pm you hun. Sending my love to you I'm so sorry 💝😘

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Aleelilook in reply toKathryn1984

I’m so sorry, it truly is heartbreaking. I thought my world had fallen apart, like I couldn’t breath. We saw the heartbeat at 7 weeks, and I also had a subchorionic bleed, and then it stopped and we went for our second scan hopeful, and at that point we were told the heartbeat had stopped, it was like someone had winded me, an absolute nightmare. However with time, love and lots of support things got better. Take your time, be sad, be angry, and do whatever makes you feel a little more human. Perhaps a counsellor from the clinic might help to support you too, but whatever you choose just be kind to yourself lovely, you will be able to cope, and you will get better x

You’re in my thoughts at this saddest of times xxxx

Hi Kathryn. I've seen your posts and I'm so sorry it's ended this way for you. Cry as much as you need to! Take care of yourselves xx

I’m so terribly sorry Kathryn 😢 thinking of you and sending lots of love and strength xxx

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DianeArnoldPartnerNurseFertility Network UK

Hi Kathryn1984. My dear girl, you cry away. I do hope you've got lots of support around you just now. Sending you love and gentle hugs. I'm thinking of you. Diane

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Lilli79

Hi Kathryn I'm so sorry to hear this. I see you posted about other ladies who've been through the same, there are many of us on here who can offer support and advice from having had similar experiences. Please do ask any questions you need to to. For the moment though, rest and take care of yourself. Sending love xxxx

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Ash2016

Sorry to hear this. Sending you hugs xxx

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Squeak2

Hi Kathryn1984, my experience doesn’t seem to have been as traumatic as yours! Please read my profile, it will fill you in. I needed time for me and my OH to grieve but soon needed something to focus on and organised my review appt with my clinic and needed to know then if I had any options left. I’m 41 and only was able to have 1 nhs try as there were a lot of issues with waiting times. Take care and focus on looking after each other! 💕 and hugs xx

I’m so sorry to hear this. Xxx thinking of you and your other half. X

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Franco81

I’m so sorry you are going through this. Take one day at a time until you are ready to focus on the future again. Lots of love x

Big hugs x

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Smang

I’m so sorry for your loss Kathryn xx

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Tugsgirl

So sorry. I know how it feels 😞 xx

I am so so sorry to read this. I hope you are able to process this and cry and then come back to try again. Sending you massive hugs xx

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Autumnmoon

So sorry to hear this please look after each other hope you have support of family and friends too x

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kt_11

Really sorry to hear this. Can’t possibly imagine how you’re feeling. Hope you’ve got lots of support xx

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Poppy16

I feel so sad for you and your OH. Awful news for you both. I am very sorry to hear this. Rest plenty and take time to grieve over your precious baby. You will get through this but just take one day at a time. I'm here if you need any support. Big hugs.xo

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Clare_lou

Kathryn, I’m so so sorry. There really are no words...it’s just so devastating. The only thing I can say from experience is that you will get through this. Thinking of you xxx

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lou79

Thinking of you xx

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Looby25

I’m so sorry to hear this, have been thinking of you over the weekend! Look after each other, sending you both love x x x

I’m so sorry to hear this. Sending you lots of love xxx

I'm so sorry :( xxx

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LR16

Sending you love and hugs. You have been so incredibly strong and you will continue to be so. Take care of yourself and your other half - you will both be in a lot of emotional pain. Things will get easier, I promise. Always have hope xxx

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Choctastic

So sorry to hear this. Look after yourself xx

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emu2016

Oh Kathryn, I’m so so sorry. You’ve had such a journey. :( Cry all you want. Be strong together and cuddle close xx

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Tezzabell86

I’m so sorry Kathryn. Take the time to grieve and look after each other. We are all here for you xxx

So sorry to hear this x sending u love

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vic77

Oh hunny...my heart is breaking for you and sadly I feel your pain and know exactly what you are going through..there are no words but know I am thinking of you....sending much love xxxxxx

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LHow81

So sad to read this. Take care of each other x

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Dreamingofbaby

So sorry to hear this. So awful bless u Hun. Take good care urself and just let self grieve n be at mo Take care xxx

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Manesp

So sad that this has happened, stay strong hun. Thinking of you😘

Truly sorry you have gone through this experience. So sorry for your loss, I’ve been there it’s heartbreaking 💔 I know there are no words to ease this pain just want you to know I’m thinking of you xoxo

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