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Not feeling right good tonight. I’m so scared for Saturday and things not going our way. Someone has messaged my daughter today saying she had a top grade embryo and had a chemical pregnancy. Knocked her a bit today and I can see it in her eyes . It’s so hard this journey as you all know. Sorry for being on a downer tonight xxxx

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The grading has to be taken with a pinch of salt- lord Robert Winston points out that the only “top grade” embryo is the one that makes a baby- they can’t properly predict that. Your daughter is in with a chance. My embryo was graded 2:2 but I’m six weeks pregnant and really hopeful that this is our time. The waiting is so hard at every stage of the process though.

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Gillyc1 in reply to Lizzielizzielizzie

Thankyou so much for your reply. My poor hubby walked in from work to find me crying bless him. Wish I could just close my eyes and it be Saturday. Xxx

in reply to Lizzielizzielizzie

So true!! 5 of my 9 embryos were top grade but all abnormal :( following genetic testing. The ones that were normal resulted in 2 chemical pregnancies which are cruel and devastating x

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Autumnmoon

Know what you mean I am so up and down with my girl too we know them so well and only want everything to go right for them sending all my very best wishes that all will be well for your daughter and your family x

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Gillyc1 in reply to Autumnmoon

Thankyou so much. You will know exactly what I feel. It rips my heart out seeing her like this. How are things with your daughter xx

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Autumnmoon

Well I'm almost afraid to say but she got a BFP but we are really scared as last time it went wrong soon after so just holding our breath at the moment but yes I totally get what you are saying and hope both our girls get through this with a lovely healthy baby x

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Gillyc1 in reply to Autumnmoon

That’s wonderful news. Wishing you and your family all the best. I know it’s going to be hard to relax. We know too much and that’s why we worry xx

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Autumnmoon

Thank you yes you are right just crossing everything and saying prayers!

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